What can u do when your beautiful in the inside and on the outside not so "beautiful"?

Question

Ok, im a girl and i have a great personality and not only i think so but other ppl hav told me this. but on the outside im not so quote un-quote beautiful. Im always around ppl who accept me for who i am but when lik guys come around they never really wanna know the inside they judge me by how i look on the outside and never bother 2 get 2 even notice that i have an inside at all. And also if most of your friends are pretty and you are the "ugly" one what do i do? They're always getting talked 2 by the boys and i am just ignored. What do i do?

Answer 1

ok u know what? i can help you
email me a picture of you (my email address should be on my profile)
i'll be able to help you out with anything u can add...nothing too serious..but just some tips that will keep everything natural, yet enhanced.
I know exactly what you mean. You have a beautiful personality, but a lot of people don't even know because they don't even take a chance to get to know you.
I can help you out.

I really hope I can help!
Happy Thanksgiving and have a good weekend!!

Answer 2

Ugh. Me too. Why do boys have to be so judgemental? Sometimes I wish people would look deeper. My situation is pretty similar actually, except that I'm known for being incredibly smart and nerdy and all that, so boys just talk to me to copy my homework and nothing else. And not to put other girls down, but most of the time it seems like the girls that get all the attention are always the pretty ones, no matter how mean they can be.

It just makes me really sad sometimes, you know?

I guess the best you can do is just keep being the same wonderful person it sounds like you already are. Someday, someone different will come along, and it'll be all worth it.

Well, at least I feel better now that I've found someone that has the same problem as I do. Thanks for your question; I feel kind of relieved!

I wish you good luck and all the best. :)

Answer 3

It's good that you are beautiful on the inside, because as you grow older all those girls that only have beauty will be stuck, but you will still have your inner beauty! Also, as guys mature, personality is more important. Like, I'm this case: my friend is dating a really pretty girl but she thinks she is the most beautiful girl in the universe. He has to treat her like a princess, or shw ill lock him outside naked. If he met you, I think he will choose you over his girlfriend. Hang in there.

P.S. You are like me. I have a plain, nothing special face, but people say I have a good personality and I'm make a good friend.

Answer 4

continue to be yourself dont let anyone make you feel ugly alots of times people go by look not personality and in the end they fine that looks isnt everthing. so continue to be yourself and start the conversation with a guy first try it, it just may work once a guy gets to know you.

Answer 5

Hang in there.

The boys who are only looking for beauty queens are not worth having.

The boy who is willing to look a little deeper will like you for who you are.

And consider this: beauty does not last forever.

Answer 6

sweetie, first of all, you have to change your thinking about yourself. when you're beautiful on the inside, it will shine through to the outside! just like when you look at someone, and you think they look so beautiful on the outside, but then you get to know them, and they're not beautiful on the inside, that ugliness really does show through to the outside, and you realize that they're honestly not attractive anymore. I have honestly seen this happen.
you need to stop seeing yourself as the "ugly" one, because you're not! and start seeing yourself as a young lady who deserves a chance to get to know people and get noticed! don't let your friends push you aside when guys are around, and don't let yourself step aside when you want to talk to guys. you go forward from this day on, and don't look back! you've been feeling bad about yourself for far too long. and it's often the prettiest girl who doesn't get talked to because she's just like you, and doesn't realize how pretty she is, and guys just think you're too good for them, and they don't try.
you stop letting yourself be ignored! starting today, you smile and look people in the eye when you talk to them, start making conversation with guys, yes, you be the one who starts talking first! and I bet you will be so surprised at what happens!
like I said, inner beauty shines through! you just need to take this advice and put it to the test!
your letter really got to my heart because I was that same girl that you feel like you are now. guys never noticed me, and were mean to me all the time. they called me names,etc. it was awful.
but one day I made up my mind that I wasn't going to put up with it anymore, and even though I didn't feel confident, I started acting like I was anyway! and I started wearing a little make-up, looking people in the eye when I spoke to them, and smiled when I really didn't feel like smiling. but, it all paid off! when I started accepting myself, and showing guys that I was good enough to talk to, they started talking to me. and I would never have imagined it in my wildest dreams what would happen next, but I got voted the most beautiful girl in my high school! and not long after that, was asked to be a model for a huge make-up company!
you are beautiful! and you can achieve all your goals if you just set your mind to it! how you feel about yourself really does affect the way others see you and treat you.
I sincerely wish you the very best. you deserve it!

Answer 7

come on-god has given something to everyone-enhance your best feature-smile a lot-be friendly-be you.and keep up with the good inside.good luck

Answer 8

same here! same situation girl
think about it like this
a guy worth going out with will notce u anyway
email me!
[e-mail]!

Answer 9

you draw attention to ur self with ur personality
be funny.
quick witted.
etc. if ur personality is ":beautiful"
use its beauty