Should i tell my friend tooo stop being SELF CENTERED??

Question

she talks non-stop about herself for at least a half hour!!!! its crazy....and then shes like everybody hates me feel srry for me

Answer 1

Yes you should, it is obviously bothering you. Try not to make "you" statements when you tell them.
E.g "You are the most self centred...." This will put them on the defense. Use " I " statements E.g. " I feel that sometimes my feelings are ignored", " I cannot do that because I am very busy"
Using this technique should stop a huge argument and also make your selfish friend realise how their selfishness affects others, namely you. I have an elderly father who in his dementia has become extremely self centred and I use the " I " statements every day.

Answer 2

I have a friend just like that get another friend and talk to her more or make many new freinds because sooner or later your going blow up for hearing her talk about her self all day. Talk To Me At [e-mail]

Answer 3

That depends. Is your friend being self centered? And if they are, how self centered is self centered? Really can't answer this question without having more information. Sorry.

Answer 4

yes..u shudd...i hate that...i have a friend, who cant really afford much cuz her dad has 3 jobs and is paying for her brothers college tution, so, she brags so much about everything! i said "nice shirt!" she goes off telling me nothing related to what i said, instead she goes off saying where its from, how much its for! i just hate that!! i told her straight up...don act liek a *****...set yo braggin self straight! aite? << i wudd juzz do that!

Answer 5

yes, let her azz know that it is not all about him or her!!! don't ya hate people like that. and most of them are shallow and ugly as hell.