If you are an attractive woman who has, or would, use sex, or the implied offer thereof, for favors, and a guy rebuffs one of those offers, even though he's not attached to anyone else, and not homosexual, what did, and would, you think of him? Are men that can resist you a turn on or do they anger you?
2006-11-24 08:08:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I admire men who have good control over their impulses and demonstrate good charactert their strength is an attractive and admirable thing. I think very little of women who have to resort to offering sexual favors to get what they want. Being smart, clever and respected is far more effective. (unless you are bribing your husband to take you to the ballet..that is an altogether different matter and great fun.)
2006-11-24 08:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends really.
If you are talking about favors alone. I always just come right out and ask for what I want if I need help. If you say no. Oh well... I never had to use my sexuality to get favors of any kind...
If you are refering to dating?
It sometimes made me feel... certain ways, but angry isin't usually one of them.
With most people, rejection triggers other experiences and other things that really have very little to do with him/her and his/her lack of interest.
Sounds like the typical "Couldn't ever please Daddy/mommy issue." Men have it, women have it... It is amazing how very much Daddy/mommy issues effect other, non relevent things.
Some women come on like pigs, some women are just overly aggressive and in understanding their own condition, if they are like this, they should both; know it and expect all kinds of different responces from all kinds of different men. Shake it off you know?
I was raised by all men and as a woman, I did tend to take what I wanted most of my life... or try, as in the case you are talking about.
No, I don't think I would be angry, unless the guy was an as*hole about it and responded in a rude or "holier than thou" attitude or embarassed me publically. That would however merit a bit of anger on a woman's part would it not?
If a guy is cool and see's and understands that all people are screwed together differently, and a girl understands this as well, the parting (if neither one is interested in the advances of the other) should always be respectiful and amicable. If not, then there are obviously issues involved by one party or the other...
But...I do think it can make most people feel badly no matter what. For a girl like I was when I was dating, It made me feel that people just could never get me you know?
I have been rejected, but never thought that I was wrong for being aggressive, but more so felt sorry for myself that I could never seem to find the right men. I was also a little envious of the kind of girly girl that could bat their lashes and get a man to do anything for them... but girls like this, were not raised hunting, fishing and playing football and getting beat up by 6 men and boys...
That is my issue though not theirs. No reason to blame anyone else for my issues... so my answer is... not necessarily angry, but bumbed out and sad sometimes, yeah...
Thank God I am not single in this day and age... It is just too damn hard!
2006-11-24 08:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont offer sexual favors, since I am not trashy and am married, but I think it would be sort of an insult, because usually women like that think that all men are the same and all they think about is sex. So if they can resist, then they take it as an insult, "they must be calling me ugly". I hope that helps!
2006-11-24 08:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither!!!! It confuses me and I feel like the carpet has been pulled out from underneath my feet. Sometimes I can walk away and say "hells bells" other times I think what just went wrong here? I usually give myself 2 weeks to wonder, whine, weep and wuss out. I think that anger can be avoided by communication. Does it turn me on when they resist me. Not really. Do I want them more no. I don't want to keep trying to be seductive to someone who doesn't want me. It is a waste of his time and mine.
2006-11-24 08:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could I use sex for favors if sex is what I'm after to begin with?
But to really answer your question - a turn on.
2006-11-24 08:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by FunBetty! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer to use nonsexual means of getting help or favors from men.
2006-11-24 08:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there too and been called homosexual too-why settle for a loser no matter the looks when you seek a keeper for life-in Jesus amazing grace with thanks John 3 Repent and be born again to see the kingdom of heaven asking him in our heart.
2006-11-24 08:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by Prince7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL
That's funny. I gotta keep this one on my watchlist.
2006-11-24 08:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by S.A.M. Gunner 7212 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since im a les, i think gay guys and straight guys are cute, doesnt matter which. but girls are most sexy....:)
2006-11-24 08:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ka. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dunno it's never happened before ; )
2006-11-24 08:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋