need advice on a girl...?

Question

There Is this girl, her name is Joya and I have had a crush on her since I met her at the begining of the school year. I went out with this other girl Sam for almost 2 months, but then she chated on me with my friend Chris, we broke up shortly after that. That monday at school I asked Joya for some advice on how to tell if this girl I like likes me, I didn't use any names, she asked me what her personality is like so I started to discribe Joya to herself, not giving to much to away to let her know it was her. Then wednsday befor first period she told me that she didn't like guys, that she learned from her moms mistakes.

After first period I told Joya how I felt about her, ok so I gave her a note that said how I felt. Then I walked the other way to my next class. I didn't stay long enough for her to read the note. I gave her my number in it so she could call me but so far nothing. Joya isn't the average girl, she is very energetic, wild, careing, ext. she flirts with me at lunch and I flirt back. I'm just not shure if she likes me the way I like her. So if someone could give me some advice one what I should do or think, plese help me.

Answer 1

Your doing everything right and being a little mysterious too. You are not one of her Moms mistakes, tell her she needs to make her own to judge by. She probally is interested in you too, be patient and continue to be her friend first.

Answer 2

Sorry but I think she just sees you as a friend. She is probably a real flirt. Maybe you should find other things to fill your time with besides girls, like sports or something, since you are still in high school. YOu have a long life ahead of you to worry about the opposite sex.....I wish someone would have told me that in h.s.

Answer 3

Keep your hopes up that she feels the same way toward you. You never know what will happen so try to stay positive.