social intelligence?

Question

do you know a good book on this? how to win people, how to make them feel good about them selfs ?

Answer 1

If you wan to win people, you need to be a better person than the one you wan to win. I suggest that you should read the book "How to Win Friends & Influence People" by Dale Carnegie.
If you read that already and don't feel any changes, it's fine to change yourself first. Furthernore, you can read some of the most famous people's quotes and apply it to your life.
GOOD LUCK.

Answer 2

Always look people in the eye, listen to what they are saying, mirror their body language or posture as you speak with them. Act interested, be friendly and smile....you don't need a book. If you don't interact well with people, you won't do well in life, no matter how smart, what your title is, what your job is.....people skills are the key to everything else.

Answer 3

You can't make anyone feel good about themselves. We all come to that ourselves or not at all. You can, however, say positive things, point out their strengths, and encourage them.

The only good book I know is the Bible. It says to love your neighbor as youself. If we all did that, what a world it would be! :o)

God Bless,

Sue

Answer 4

Most people seem to talk about themselves as though they are the most interesting things in the world. To 'win' people, show interest in them. Don't need to be nosey, but listen to them, establish eye contact, share something about your own experiences. And be sincere.

Answer 5

How to make friends and Influence People, it's either by Norman vincent Peale or Napolean Hill.

Answer 6

Aesop's Fables....

Answer 7

The Bible.