Should i merry my ex-boyfriend. Who wants to raise my un born child as his own .?

Question

My exboyfriend want to raise my unborn child as his own . the child belongs to another guy. that i do not want inthe child's life. he is a real bad person.but on the other hand i feel safe with my exboyfriend . i still have felling for my exboyfriend and i think that he would be a better father than the other guy. so now i don't know what to do.

Answer 1

Depends on the child - if he/she are old enough to say yeah i like him. But if you are just looking for a father for the child the answer there would be no, don't do it..
Take it slow and see how your ex. gets along and his true feeling toward you and the baby.
I would truly think twice before moving in on a serious situation like that, your baby comes first not you.

Answer 2

I feel like I'm watching Jerry Springer when I view the questions here. The word is MARRY not "merry". UNBORN is one word, not two. I think you have FEELINGS for your exboyfriend not "felling". How many guys have you been with lately?? It sounds like you need to step back and think about this. Why would you consider having your exboyfriend raise your child? If he's an ex, he's no longer part of your life. Take a good look at your lifestyle....it doesn't sound like you're ready to be a mom..........maybe you should consider adoption.

Answer 3

Its not about you anymore think for your child.Ask him to ask a question. Should i marry a girl thats pregnant to another guy?

Text can be taken out of context I am not having a go at you. You know the right answer was the first thing you thought when he asked you. The rest is just doubt.

Answer 4

Why is it that so many girls choose to get pregnant by a bad guy they do not want further in their lives?

If you think you can have a compatible arrangement (or marriage) with your nicer ex then by all means try it. Good luck.