And even though I love boys who aren't from my own race, it sucks to get rejected and put down from your own kind.
Ironically, my friend has the opposite problem.
Is this normal?
2006-11-24 07:25:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Asian woman are very beatiful by all man's standard, but asian man are ugly in most woman's standard. therefore asian man feel shy and inferior when they compare themselves with westners and are uneasy to approach excedingly beatiful women in general.
By making youself simple, and not very beatiful or sexy, you will seem more aproachable.
2006-11-24 07:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very common and normal but illogical. People have preferences that's the best way for it be explained. I'm sure you haven't had a lifetime of experience so it's just the guys in your neighborhood, school etc. who are closed minded to say the least. Live and stop worrying about who wants you, who's attracted you. It doesn't matter in the long run. Whoever is lucky's enough to have you could turn out to be green but he'll love you for the great person you are.
2006-11-24 07:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a male. I have never met a single woman in my life who was considered attractive by a large group of people but totally excluded by one segment of men. You see, men have something in common- they like cute girls. You may be projecting something socially to boys of your own race or you may have some kind of internal self consciousness for some reason that makes you think you are putting them off but if boys from other races like you, chances are there are a certain number of boys from your own race that like you also.
2006-11-24 07:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question should be why are these boys going after their own races rather than insulting their heritage and going after another race. Are they racists against their own race?
The problem is not you and you should not fell rejected. At least you are aware that you should be attracted to your own race.
2006-11-24 07:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wallaforadolla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, it is ok. The guys around you are idiots. Don't worry about them. I was let down because I wasn't getting the guys I wanted either, but I met my fiance who is totally different from my dream guy and he's so beautiful to me. So be comfortable with yourself and enjoy life. And guess what? You'll be experienced! You'll know a loser when you see one! Have fun, girl!
2006-11-24 08:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Mikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. Give the guys from the other race a chance, do yourself a favor.
2006-11-24 07:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure its not you,maybe the boys from your own race are more attracted to other races.
2006-11-24 07:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be greatful that you are liked by some men. some people never get attention from anyone. that must really suck.
2006-11-24 07:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by sharon w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS NORMALTHEY ARE VERY STUBREN SO TRUST ME THEY ARE GOING TO GET JELLY WHEN U DO GO OUT WITH ANOTHER RACE
2006-11-24 07:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by happy christian11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is pretty common.
2006-11-24 11:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by goldenbrowngod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋