Let me start off by saying that I started by period on the 28th of October, and I run on a 28 day cycle. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time on the 18th of November. He used a spermicidal lubricant condom. There were no rips, holes, or anything of that. He didn't ejaculate inside of me either, but there was pre *** in the condom, none of which got out.
We only had sex for two minutes or so, because we were kind of afraid that we'd screw it up. I'm not on the pill.
We had sex again on the 22nd, and he used a condom again. There were no rips, tears, etc.
He has never ejaculated inside of me, either. He pulls out, and then does it.
He has fingered me a few times, but there was nothing on his fingers at the time.
Tomorrow I should start my period, but I'm getting no cramps or anything, and I usually do two days beforehand.
I know we did everything right, and I've assured myself that we'll be fine, but I just need some reassurance.
Thank you so much,
Patri
2006-11-24 07:13:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sounds like you've (both) been very sensible. So... CONGRATULATIONS on finding a caring bloke!
The chances of your being pregnant are infinitessimally small, if you've done as you say, but there is still a theoretical probability, but I would stress THEORETICAL.
But both having sex and worrying about being pregnant can indeed make you late.
SO don't worry... keep on bonking that boy and enjoy it!
:-)
2006-11-24 07:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by George D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry too much, especially if it is the first time that you are having sex, the body changes to this new experience. You may be a few days late even a week or so late. I would if I were you go and get on the Pill or the Depo shot, it gives you a piece of mind. Worrying too much will make u late as well quit stressing, i used to be like you and had the same problem with worrying.
2006-11-24 07:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Heather W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm starting to wonder if you're a bit TOO paranoid! Everyone has changes in their cycle every so often. If you're sexually active it may be a good idea to start taking the pill as it gives you that extra piece of mind, which you clearly need!
If your boyfriend is wearing a condom then there's no reason to withdraw really (it just seems cruel!), also being spermicidal it'd likely kill any strays.
Just relax! If your period is, say, a week late it would be worth doing a test. I don't think you need to be worrying just now though.
:-)
2006-11-24 07:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt your pregnant. Everyone at one point in their life will get a messed up period. You could be stressed more because of the holidays or the fact that you just gave yourself to your boyfriend and your scared, etc. It could be anything! Maybe your too worried about maybe getting pregnant that your stressed about that too and you period is going to be late due to stress. Wait until your late 2 weeks to take a test because you won't have enough hormone to tell. Pulling out doesn't always ensure you won't get pregnant. Those sperm have a mind of their own, trust me, I have a daughter! :)
If you did everything you could to take precaution, you shouldn't have anything to worry about, so just chill and enjoy your relationship because tense sex is no fun.
2006-11-24 07:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by SugarCoatedAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you should probably start on the birth control pills.
Then, you should take a pregnancy test to make sure.
Search the internet for a clinic close to where you live, and pick a good day to go get tested. It's much easier to know if you are, rather than never know and pregnant.
2006-11-24 07:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine honey. If your getting worried go and get the pill. If you worry too much about pregnancy it can make your period late. If it worries you too much and you miss a period go and get a test a week after your period was supposed to be.
2006-11-24 07:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by mintycakeyfroggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey i think your probably stressing yourself over this one. It sounds to me like you have bee really careful but your freaking out about it in case you have missed something.......this could be while your period is late. Stress can do that it ca upset your cycle.
I would defiantly say you have nothing to worry about as you are using condoms just carry on being careful.
2006-11-24 08:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex, either for the first time or for the first time in ages, can knock your normal routine 'all outta whack'.
So don't panic, I'm sure you'll be ok, but you might be a couple of weeks late.
2006-11-24 07:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all please get started on the pill for your own peace of mind. secondly stress can cause you to experience different pms symptoms, trust me i've been there if i stress too much i can even miss a period, but if you are still stressing then get a home testing kit they are very accurate these days.
just chill out and enjoy your relationship!!
2006-11-24 07:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be fine. if you worry, then you may not get your period as stress can delay it.
you did everything right with contraceptives, however if sex is regular maybe the pill woulde be a good idea
2006-11-24 07:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋