Is it ok, or not? Say why, or why not you think so.
2006-11-24 06:46:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
nope ....its perectly ok to me..have a little fun befdore u have a family of ur own
2006-11-24 14:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think it is a your own person decision. What you do behind closed doors is completely up to you. Honestly I had sex before marriage. Which is not something I am proud of now, but it was a choice I chose to make and I will forever live with that. I am married now and I wish I would have been able to look my husband in the eyes and say I saved myself for you. But I also believe everything happens for a reason, and there is nothing in life you should regret. Everyone will make a choice right or wrong and that is something you live with forever, no body should be there judging your every mistake (aka sin)because they to are human and they make mistakes too.
2006-11-24 13:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by EMT_B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not.
People are doing the smart thing and waiting until the get to be old enough, smart enough, financially ready and find the right person to get married. This is an improvement over an era when women were married off as soon as possible as they were a liability to their parents. They then had as many children as possible.
In our modern times, with readily available effective birth control I see no reason not to have sex before marriage, and every reason not to have teenage "I want sex" hormones influence their decision to get married. Also a more secure marriage leads to better parenting skills. Which is very important in our isolated society where there is no "community" to assist in the raising of children and the running of a household.
2006-11-24 06:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's all a personal choice. Regardless of religion, God's will sometimes doesn't have the power to stop raging hormones or a deep love for someone. My opinion is that sex before marriage is fine, as long as it is protected and safe, unless I plan on getting pregnant (which at 14 I don't, of course). The age of consent where I live is 16.. year and a half before it's legal for me anyway. If at 16 I am in a long term relationship I'd consider it.
2006-11-24 09:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is great. Any time you spend waiting you are missing out. Sex before marriage used to be wrong, because people used to get married when they were 13. Now people don't get married until they are 30, and you shouldn't have to wait that long.
2006-11-24 07:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, its bad. i'm not sure if its a sin but when you do want to get married, what treasures will you leave for your spouse? Birth control isn't 100% sure of you not having a child,and abortion is wrong.
on the other hand, if you are in a strong relationship, why not? If you trust the guy enough and you know he loves you, then i guess it's okay
but if your relationship is the based on sex i think that is wrong.
2006-11-24 10:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the person and their religion.....i think if you can wait until marriage that's great it shows you are strong and have the will power to succeed.....but its hard and i think its OK to lose it before marriage as long as you are really ready.......and you aren't just doing it because everyone else is i waited until i was 18 before i even lost mine and I'm still with that same guy now....we are getting married soon and I'm happy....
2006-11-24 07:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by first time mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alot of Religious people think that it's wrong but its 2006 almost 2007 and if you really think about it there alot of people that are 13 years old with kids and not married and like for me i have been with my husband for a year and we have a 5 month old son we got married when he was 2 1/2 weeks after he was born so it just depends on the person and who you ask
2006-11-24 06:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by allymay04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I, too, am a virgin and plan to stay that way until marriage. sure, my non secular ideals play a great factor in my determination even if it extremely is not the only factor. i like the reality that when I do choose for to share myself with somebody i'm giving him something that no person else has had, and prayerfully he may be the only one that ever will. i'm additionally extremely modest and shy consequently to place with guy after guy for the purpose of actual exhilaration is out of the question. as quickly as I do share myself with somebody i visit be giving him all that i'm and not what's left after previous relationships. it is likewise an advantage understanding that the adult adult males i'm in relationships with are not with me only for the intercourse. there is likewise the present that God has given me that i ought to grant to only one specific individual of my picking. save in mind that once you supply your virginity away it extremely is long gone for stable. sure, you will have that surgical operation which will reattach your hymen yet you have already experienced the act of intercourse so it extremely is extremely rather well-known. i'm hoping i've got replied what you have been searching for.
2016-11-26 20:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think its wrong because of the heart break,
Its great for your spouse when you get married if you dont.
You wont get a disease if you dont.
Also there will be much less heart break if you dont.
I know its hard because thats all guys seem to want.
If you have a boyfriend that wants to .. he only really cares about you if he respects your wishes on waiting, if you wanna wait,
2006-11-24 09:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by musicalxcrash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you asked for my opinion so I shall grant it to you.
I'm 21 and yet to even kiss a girl and I shall not have sex before marriage. My purity is intact and it shall remain that way until my wedding night.
The person I marry also to have had refrained from any sex before.
That is my personal belief and opinion.
But as for you, it is your choice. Think deeply about it, and be sure not to do anything that you may regret afterwards.
If your partner doesn't want to wait, then that person is not for you.
2006-11-24 06:54:31 · answer #11 · answered by snipertkc 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋