the thing is its getting on my wifes nerves,how would you feel if your partner was this way,would you feel uncomftable or is it something that wouldnt really bother you.
honest answers please cause i would really like to know what your feelings are about this
2006-11-24 06:45:02 · 16 answers · asked by The Real Deal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People tend to feel overwhelmed in situations like this. Your wifr probably needs more personal space then what you are giving her.
The question you need to be asking you self what changed for you to start acting like this? By what you are describing, some insecurities have risen within you or maybe within the relationship.
Give your wife some space to breathe, and when you say "addicted" do you mean sexually? This obssesion and addiction needs to be addressed as it can have some negative effect on your relation ship.
I know that I DO like attention from my husband, but TOO much attention would actually make me uncofortible and I would like to know what is up? I need my space, my time and it would definetely bother me.
2006-11-24 06:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya we want our husbands, boyfriends to be addicted to us but in a good way still giving us space an not dome words like were you been thats all bad if thats what you do. on the other hand obsessed with giving flowers kisses an alot of sex is great
2006-11-24 06:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be the same as your wife, no one likes anyone to Watch everything they do, and know everything they are thinking, This is the easiest way to break up a good relationship . You have to back off and give her her space. She needs freedom to come and go And most of all she needs your trust in her, It seams as if you have a problem, Your afraid she might meet someone else, Your obsession, is going to be your ruination.
2006-11-24 07:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As in most cases one (or both) people in a marriage usually get tired of the other person. Whether it is sickness of being with that same person for so long, or longing to discover oneself again, or whatever the case maybe. It can be suffocating to have someone up your *** all the time, I know I need my space. YES my man loves me and is addicted to "tha booty" but I also like to be able to have my alone time other wise I would feel like I was drowning.. Think about it, give her some space and if she truly loves you she ain't leaving you. She just needs time for herself (by herself)...
2006-11-24 06:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ ღAngelicaღ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are worse things for certain. So for you the honeymoon never ended. That's teriffic, but, yeah, I guess it is possible to go a little overboard. Try to reign it in a bit and express your feelings in more indirect ways, like flowers, cards, candy, stuff like that. You still get to show her she's still the one, and you're not so in her face about it.
2006-11-26 10:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn;t mind.
but i wouldn;t go too the limit where ur jsut being plain weird.
i mean its great its just...
its been 6 years..
aren;t you use to it?
i mean its normal to be crazy about ur partner but be addicted and obsessive like you guys were as teens or watever isn;t really fittin ur stage right now.
but just lay off.
2006-11-24 06:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I t would totaly bother me if my husband was obseesed wit my every move and also if he was addicted to being w/ me/everyone needs space for some time of the day...
2006-11-24 06:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does addicted and obsess mean in your relationship ?
You buy her flowers, take her out to dinner, buy her new clothes, make her bath water ? Or does it mean, you watch her every move, want to know where she is at every moment, check her cell phone, etc.
2006-11-24 06:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your addicted and obsessed?lol.Just dont start acting CRAZY,and trying to control her! Nothings wrong with being totally in love with your woman.Just take it easy,she's been there for 6 years,and I'm sure she's not going anywhere.Good luck.
2006-11-24 06:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You grow too attached to your wife. Relaxed.
Enjoy closeness but be detached in your mind. Let love flows in and be near and feel togetherness even apart.
2006-11-24 06:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋