Passion was always at its highest after watching porn shows from the net. ... self satisfaction is the only way to get rid of the mood. But these days a girl from the next door comes and talking with me almost everything. We even spoke about sex. Now I have a feeling that has grown inside to intimate with her. However, I don’t know how to proceed. I am a married man and my wife lives in a different country. When I think about my wife I feel step back. Any suggestion you guys….
2006-11-24 06:42:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you and your wife should share the same home.
2006-11-24 06:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Leo F 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For one, quit looking at porn, and quit thinking about this neighbor girl. Another thing, sex is a topic that you should discuss with your wife. I know your lonely, but your wife should be the most important woman in your life, and you need to think about her instead of yourself. Because if you give in to the temptation, you will feel guilty, and if you do, and your wife finds out, your marriage could be over. So why put her through all that pain.
Another thing, like I said, give up the porn, and start reading the Bible. Read in the book of Ephesians, there's alot of good advice for husbands in that book of the Bible.
Hope that this helps.
Take care and God Bless
2006-11-24 14:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How much do you value the vows you took when you chose to marry your wife?
If you feel you cannot be true to your wife, that you need a woman to be close and you cannot continue being married the way you are, divorce her. Then go off and do what you want.
2006-11-24 14:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by An Opinionated One 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't answer the door and quit looking at porn, seriously. If you decide to have an affair just picture the pain and tears on your wifes face and decide if it will be worth it. Peace :-)
2006-11-24 20:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It wouldn't be a temptation if it were easy to resist. You're a married man so stop entertaining single women-- you have nothing to offer her.
2006-11-24 14:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I fully agreed to what Bryan had commented. I feel many should look at how he looked at things. The world is changing wake up all!
2006-11-24 15:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by inspiredtchaikvosky 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are married!!!! Remember your vows. Remember your commitments. How would you feel if she was feeling like this about someone where she's at? Do unto others, my friend.
2006-11-24 14:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by babe_in_the_country 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Move your wife in...she will take care if the temptress for ya
2006-11-24 14:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
that means you're not ready to settle down- party time is not over yet for you
2006-11-24 14:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go for it.
2006-11-24 14:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋