2006-11-24 06:38:33 · 11 answers · asked by Josh B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give up your marriages and spare your partners. You both seem selfish and arrogant. You deserve each other.
2006-11-24 06:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hear ya... Stelth is most of the fun. You have to be super careful and detail oriented. Best case is that you both leave and be together - but i know that doesnt work out all the time. Have seperate email addy's that your spouse doesnt even know about so they cant hack in. Phone sex and email - thats how i survive. Im in almost the same situation... but only one of us is married. its very hard and now its long distance which is worse. oh well you do what you can. I totally understand about marrying the wrong person and cant quit the other person
2006-11-24 14:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by ice_princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so selfish and stop thinking about yourselves, and think about your own partners and what they would feel if they find out about your affair, and the pain they will feel.
Grow up and be a real man, and love your wife instead of another woman. In your wedding vows you promised to love, honor & cherish your wife, forsaking all others, meaning that you would put your wife before anyone else.
Grow up
2006-11-24 14:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both are bad people for doing this to your spouses. Don't worry you will not have to hide it very long it all comes out eventually. If you two are so in love why don't you ruin your families and get divorces. Why did you ask your wife to marry you in the first place if you were just going to ruin her life.
2006-11-24 14:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it will be hard for you to do this forever. I understand not being able to leave right now, but If you guys love each other then make plans and get together one way or another. Staying with your current spouses, you guys loving each other you are going to be miserable. Its also not fair to the spouses either to stay if you guys want to be together. Good luck.
2006-11-24 14:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't work--it will only cause pain for those involved & for your families as well. What about the vows you took when you married your spouses--wasn't there something about "forsaking all others"? Do the right thing.
2006-11-24 14:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by wanda3s48 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then your affair will not work because you do not want to "let go".No matter how you look at it. See it for what it is not what you want it to be!
Someone needs to do it that is gonna hurt alot of people.
2006-11-24 15:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poetic justice would be for the two of you to end up together. Trust??? Commitment???
2006-11-24 15:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,if my wife cheated she'd be out the door.
2006-11-24 14:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop dead. That'll work for the rest of us.
2006-11-27 18:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋