My man cheats on me every year continued?

Question

We have 2 kids and I love him and I want him to marry me but he won't commit. When I ask him about the other women he denies it. He says he loves me and that I think too much and everything is just in my head. I cook, clean, work, go to school, take care of the kids, and he still says I don't do enough. He says I have a bad attitude because I am constantly nagging him of where he's been or going. Maybe I'm in denial but I love him anyways if that makes sense. I want to leave him but my heart always takes over. How can I break this cycle?

Answer 1

damn its gonna be real hard to leave i know but just remove ur self emotionally so u could eventually get strong enuff to leave phsycially

Answer 2

As long as you put up with this type of behavior from your man- than you accept this because you love him-love is not cheating on your partner are spouse-he won't commit to marriage because that would put a crimp in his style-if he tell another woman that he is not married he is telling the truth,he is not- why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free-you love him but do he love you-anyone can say that they love you,but they don't have to mean it they are telling you what you want to hear-you do the math-nagging will not stop him-why should he leave you he have a built in maid,you do it all

Answer 3

Wow! I had to answer this question b/c it sounds just like me. I have 2 kids with my boyfriend of almost 7 years. He has cheated on me in the past uncountable times. He even ended up with a baby by some other girl. I have broken up with him and taken him back like 4 or 5 times. He hasnt cheated on me recently (that I know of) and is supposably trying to make an effort to change but in my heart i believe he will cheat again and most likely with the girl who he has the kid by but its a matter of when. But my boyfriend use to tell me the same stuf about nagging him about all that. and i think too much. But trust your instinct and most likely he wont change. they are immature and it will mess up your esteem- i know. then you wont know how to act with other guys and you probably spend too much time worrying about where he is to really put your all into your kids. Please leave him for your own sake. I am waiting for the next thing mine does to me and i am gone. You will be so much happier. no matter how hard it is. it will take a long time to ever get over i can tell you but it is worth it. maybe if you leave him he will realize what he has lost and grow up and be what you and your kids need. But that is not a good man.

Answer 4

if he cheated on you more then once and you know he still does you are dumb if you don't leave now and then if he treats you the way you say,just leave you'll be happier and so will your kids.I have been trough the whole cheating thing with my husband befor we were married,he cheated on me or had an affair for about 2-3 months we had already had our daughter and when I found out I left him and I gave him a decision to make and left it like that and when he realized what he was loosing he came back begging for forgivness and all though I did take him back I still watch for those signs of cheating because you can never trust like you once did befor,now were married and all is well so far.You should never just let them get away with that leave him and if he comes back and does good then you were meant to be if you leave him and he does/doesn't come back but still cheats then you are not meant for him leave and find someone who will love and respect you. good luck!!!!

Answer 5

No one can tell you what to do, when your cup is full,you will do what you have to. This not concern your kids, your kids should be in a health environment, and if you are unhappy, and the two of you are arguing because he feels you nag, then the environment is not healthy for them or for you. Kids can sense when things are not right. Don't be selfish and think about yourself, is this the type of realtionship you want to show them. Think about it. But only you know when you have had enough.

Answer 6

A man once told me that " A man will ONLY do what you ALLOW him to do" If you know he is cheating on you and you choose to remain with him you have choose to accept that. So now you can do one of two things.. 1. Leave him and give yourself time to heal from the hurt and move on with your life.. OR 2. you can stay there and continue to put up with the cheating and being unhappy. and if your gonna stay why not make it more convenient and stop naggin and complaing because he already knows you will be there waiting for him with a clean house and a hot meal once he comes home from beign with the other woman. I wish you the best ..

Answer 7

well remember you 2 have kids so they may be emotionally disturbed but it really doesn't sound like he cares for you at all so what i would do is:

talk to my kids even if they're 1 year old about the situation and if they're old enough to answer ask them how the feel

the if your kids aren't SO heart broken or at all leave him sooner than you ca snap your fingers because he isn't good enough for you
believe me you'll move on just let time take its path

Answer 8

Girl, you gotta leave him if you know he's chaeatin. Pack your bags and leave. Or you can kick him out and tell him he knows what he did and that he aint sorry because if he was he would've stopped the first time he chaeated on you. That's it you got no buisness being with him still.

Answer 9

Only you have the answers, and only you can do what needs to be done. You are only going to listen to what you want to do anyway. When you get sick enough of the S H I T you will move on.

Answer 10

finish it, you deserve better than that. no man is worth your attention or love if he cheats. i know it aint the best adivise eva but you deserve beta. every woman does

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