if ur husband went to a strip club & allowed a stripper to give him a lapdance, how would u feel? especially if u were having problems? & he also never came home that night?
2006-11-24 06:23:32 · 11 answers · asked by twinkle toes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that it would be unacceptable beheavior for any wife and boyfriend. Practically i would call it cheating.
Cheating is a pattern of behavior that seeks self-satisfaction at the expense of commitment to another. It strikes at the core defining characteristics of marriage:
Two people determine to share themselves with each other in a way that is unique to them and not shared by others.
They agree that the levels of trust and accountability, expected of each other will be greater than found in any other of their relationships.
They share physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual intimacy, not found in other relationship.
Their relationship is permanent and unconditional.
2006-11-24 06:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel great....The lapdance and the strip club wouldn't bother me at all...The not coming home would be the thing that set me free...I probably go give his bestfriend a lapdance...Just for shi- and giggles!!!!!
2006-11-24 22:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by divaissue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was still married after that I would be sleeping on the couch. Probably for the rest of my natural born life.
2006-11-24 14:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by jwkramer54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care about the lap dance. Nothing happens and it lasts only a few minutes... nothing to be concerned, men do that and is really nothing. Honest.
Now, if he doesn't come home... now that's another story. He should be home or else.
Good luck
2006-11-24 14:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends ... the lap dance doesn't bother me .. they can't touch the dancers ... but as for him not coming home ... maybe he needed time to think? or maybe he just wanted to get away for a night ... I wouldn't think the worst until I had more proof ... give him the benefit of the doubt until you know for sure that something more happened ... good luck I hop you work out your problems.
2006-11-24 14:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would feel like a new woman. A newly single woman to be precise.
2006-11-25 02:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by btdt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he was living his life as if he were a single man and that I would set him free.
2006-11-24 16:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If That Was Me I'd Be Living On the Street.
2006-11-24 14:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by bob r 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I trust my husband, and if he had been drinking, I wouldn't have wanted him to drive anyways.....if you keep him happy at home, then he wouldn't have to seek outside help......hope everything works out for you guys....
2006-11-24 14:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must have really curdled his milk. I think he is giving you a message.
2006-11-24 14:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋