Okay, so today I called the one friend I wanted to hang out with and she tells me her other friend, Aubrey, already asked her to hang out today. I really wanted to go with someone to this soccer game because I know my crush is going...but since all of my other friends are either away or doing stuff with other people, I have no one to go with.
Adding some background to this, my good friend who I called today was heartbroken when I became really good friends with another girl last year, but this other girl and I got in a big fight and aren't talking anymore. I'm thinking maybe the fact that I chose this other girl over my good friend made her angry, so she's always hanging out with aubrey. I always want to hang out with my good friend but she's always hanging out with someone else. I hate this feeling...I seriously have no friends because of this other girl, she basically made it so that I couldn't have any other friends..so I only hung out with her all the time.
Any help?
2006-11-24 06:05:59 · 15 answers · asked by sbeazell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do have friends, but the thing is the girl I called today ,Briton, has been my friend for a very long time, and I just feel like Aubrey doesn't like me. I know for a fact my friends do like me, and I'm not a loser, but whenever I want to hang out they never can but when I don't want to hang out they always beg me to go. What the hell is going on? And...there are no people in my school that I could be friends with other than these girls, I mean its high school. I can't drop them as friends, I just want them to know that I do want to hang out and that I wish that they would include me more because when you call a friend and ask them to do something you don't expect them to be like, oh well I'm hanging out with so and so sorry. Like what the hell? We hang out in school all the time but she excludes me from things she does outside of school.
2006-11-24 06:18:53 · update #1
I can hang out with more than one friend at a time and I have nothing against Aubrey.
The other girl, Hannah, that I was talking about before is NOT MY FRIEND ANYMORE so she's out of the picture.
I kinda talk about hannah a lot and ***** about her to my new friends...I'm thinking maybe they don't like that.
But seriously, I wanted to hang out with someone and see this boy today, so I'm really pissed. I'm like this close to crying my eyes out and I never ever cry. I just feel like no matter how much I do/don't say Briton won't take me back as her best friend.
2006-11-24 06:22:11 · update #2
Hi,,, sounds like you need to make some real friends instead of the ones that just use you.... or be different,, and strike out on your own....
good luck
2006-11-24 06:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've certainly gotten yourself into a situation! First, stop hanging out with that other girl. Secondly, you need to realize that after ignoring all of your friends for a while, they're not just going to accept you back. It will take time for them to trust you again. Keep calling your friends and try to make time for them instead of this other girl.
2006-11-24 06:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good friends are always there for you. If she is acting like a snob toy you, she is NOT your true friend. You can count your true friends on one hand throughout your life. Where will that same friend be when you're down and out? When you need someone to talk too? If you answered "i'm not sure" to either question, let her go. You do not need this as it will only bring you down.
2006-11-24 06:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 07:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now lets see here.you call them and they say they are hanging out with someone else today.then they call you and you say I'm hanging out with someone else today.It sounds like this is going both ways.You and all your so called friends need to get on the same page,or at least in the same book.Sounds like you have no friends and don't really want any.Right? Read your question see if you see the same thing I see. can't all of you hang out together.
2006-11-24 06:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some new friends.
Dump the one who only wants you to have her for a friend.
Is it possible for you to hang out with more than one person at a time?
2006-11-24 06:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by Bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is bad but hang out with onother friends or make that girls jelous.
2006-11-24 06:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by nd_250 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u now wat its time to make new frends!! i go 2 a small skool and i dot reli have that many friends and anyway if u r reli feeling alone some1 will always be there 4 u!! my frends left me all alone like they did 2 u and u know watt?????.....
I started to hang out wiv boys i know its not the same but they r more fun to be with and less bitchy and u will always have them for u!!
2006-11-24 06:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to improve your personal appearance so they should feel to hang up with you. see when you feel people are not attracting towards to you. Do not feel uncomfortable.that's it
2006-11-24 06:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by krutarth2951987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably did not want to be bothered with you or they wanted to do some stuff by they self sometimes you have to ask if you can come along or maybe you have to go do some stuff by yourself
2006-11-24 06:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋