2006-11-24 06:05:26 · 8 answers · asked by Slim 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
It's very difficult for a woman to have an orgasm just by penetration. She needs stimulation to her clitoris most times to achieve orgasm. Going by your screen name, unhappily married, and the fact that you say she just lays there, is not a good sign. If a woman isn't relaxed and in the right frame of mind, and in love with you that's already 3 strikes against you. If you feel comfortabe asking her what she needs, then do so. Some women won't just come out and tell you, but if you ask, they'll tell you.
2006-11-24 06:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Has the women been able to have an orgasm through penetration before? If so then I would say listen for any noises she may make. If you hear it then you know you are doing something right. If she hasn't been able to have an orgasm during penetration (some women just can't) then I would say oral sex or manual stimulation of the clitoris. That works for me every time.
2006-11-24 14:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answering your question, you can't. Some women may NEVER have an orgasm through penetration, some will occasionally, etc. There is no way for you to ensure she has an orgasm solely through penetration every time.
However, you can find other ways to increase her pleasure. First, ask her! She knows her body better than anyone, ask her what feels good, what feels wrong, what you can do to improve the experience for her.
2006-11-24 14:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jaded 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, who wants to bone a chick that just lies there, thats boring. If she's just lying there, then she isn't enjoying the sex, because she's got like 10,000 hang ups ( not confident with her body, afraid you will think she's a slut, depressed, on her period...etc ). First thing you have to do is probably the hardest: turn her on, and don't allow her to turn herself off. It's more mental than anything.
Once you get her out of her shell, you have to hit the g-spot. This is another problem, as most women that start to have an orgasm from g-spot stimulation, complain about feeling a peeing sensation, and she will probably want to stop because she feels like she's gonna pee on you. Reassure her that she won't pee, and if she does happen to squirt something, it's not pee, it's female ejaculation. Not many women do that anyway.
Goodluck.
2006-11-24 14:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by three6ty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Having an orgasm, or just enjoying sex requires a proper mental attitude, as well as physical contact. If she does not want to have sex, you will never get her to have an orgasm.
It's a lot easier for guys, because they always want sex, so the mental part for them is a cinch. Women are a lot different, that is why when we have a headache, or other issue, sex is out of the question.
On the other hand, a guy could have just lost an arm in a chainsaw accident, and still want to screw his wife on the way to the ER.
2006-11-26 01:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try different positions, like Greek style, and others. Use short, fast strokes, rather than long, deep thrusts. Press hard with your pubic bone to put pressure upon her clit. try to suck and nibble & pinch her nipples while you thrust into her. Rub her anus with your fingers and try EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD to get her off and screaming in ecstasy.
Practice makes perfect. You'll find a way
2006-11-24 14:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by blackbird 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well learn about the ''G spot" it trigers orgasams. Go to a libary or even on the internet you can find stuff about it.
2006-11-24 14:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure to hit her g spot. look up positions that hit the g spot. or rub her clitoris for a stronger orgasm.good luck.
2006-11-24 14:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋