I need methods to help me calm down. Im 40 weeks dilated3 and 75% effaced. if the baby dont come soon im going to loose it. i have no regular doctor so i duno who to ask about being induced and the hospital im going to i dont want them to deliver my baby becasue they are unattentive and rude. wtf am i supposed to do!?!?!?!
2006-11-24 06:04:46 · 10 answers · asked by Monica S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Forgot, they swept my membrains wednesday afternoon and still no contactions or anything. i got dilated 3 in 2 days and if i go into labor and its a short labor they wont be able to give me the medicine i need for group B.
2006-11-24 06:14:13 · update #1
awwww I know it sucks being that far along. Alls you want is baby. Whos going to deliver your baby if you dont want the hospital too? I dont get it. Anyways. enjoy the last little while you have being pregnant. Once the babys born you will wish that you still were. Good luck and congrats
2006-11-24 06:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. Tension is the thing that is your worst enemy, it'll make your labor come MORE slowly! Your medical people can run drugs into you and force you into labor but that really does increase your risk of having a difficult, complicated labor. 42 weeks is normal - you need to accept that it could be another week. But it probably won't because your cervix is pretty ripe.
You're "supposed to" relax and visualize the perfect childbirth... try listening to music that you feel is sexy, taking a walk, and playing around on Yahoo answers, and drinking raspberry leaf tea. Visit some sites that talk about painless childbirth. Realize that the end of pregnancy is a unique time - you will never feel like this, emotionally or physically, at any other time, and it's pretty neat. Besides, once you have the baby it's like a page turns forever... if you are really ready for it, you wouldn't feel too rushed to get there, in my opinion.
If you don't trust your hospital people, then don't accept any interventions unless they're medically necessary! Try to ignore them except for the necessary stethoscope and internals. Because, the more they do to you, the less you are in control, and the more tense you will be, the more likely you will end up not progressing well. Natural childbirth is completely doable and I recommend it to anyone who is healthy and prefers to think for herself. =)
Don't worry too much about the GBS stuff. It's not really very likely to make your child sick even without the antibiotics, unless s/he has some other problem.
2006-11-24 06:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by zilmag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you need to calm down and the baby will come when the baby is ready. I know that it is really hard to wait since you have been waiting so long already and the last couple of weeks seem to drag on and on. But the baby will come when he is ready. If you are concerned about being induced then I would talk to one of the doctors that you go to. I guess a question for you is why don't you have a regular doctor that you can go see and talk to. I just think that you need to calm down and relax and you will have a baby before you know it.
2006-11-24 06:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do but be patient. Try focusing on something else other than when you're going to go into labor. You won't be induced until you're at least 10 days late. Maybe you're perceiving the hospital staff to be rude because you're really anxious and uptight about having the baby? Just relax.
2006-11-24 07:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 10:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by brenneman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey start walking and when you think you are in labor KEEP WALKING. The weight of the baby will help you. I walked two weeks with my first and then when i knew I was in labor I took a bottle of Caster Oil...taste like crap but worked..ONLY IF YOURE IN LABOR!!
2006-11-24 06:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by dee4rad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always just show up to the "nice" hospital saying your in labor. you far enough along that they would probably induce, just say you were closer to that hospital than your regular one
2006-11-24 06:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by snickerdoodle30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok relax breath in and let out slowly....Now is there anywhere else you can go, maybe there is a mid wife or something along those lines that you can have come to you!!
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-24 06:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down...for that baby's sake.
2006-11-24 06:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
check www.nhs.co.uk for more help, support and advise!
2006-11-24 06:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋