Its been over three years and I still cant get over him. We were together for five years and I cant get him off my mind. I think about him everyday and he is still in my fantasies. It ended kind of badly and last I heard he was seeing a GIRL! Any help would be appreciated.
2006-11-24 06:01:07 · 6 answers · asked by bakura1980 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This person will always be a part of you.
The Best ways to forget is meet other men.
talk and have a friendly relationship
it may grow into a serious one . if so . you may be ready or you may not be. but try to do different things .
When you start to think about him. stop . think about things you need to get done . call a friend . go out ..dis tract your thoughts from him..
2006-11-24 06:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you have to do is decide you WANT to get over him. Remember, you are a powerful person. After three years you are giving your power away to a memory. Sorry to tell you this but at a certain point you have to take responsibility for your obsessions and quit acting as though they are something that is happening to you from outside. I wouldn't say that after a month, a year, even two- but after three its time to stop looking at his memory image and take a good look in the mirror. Who do YOU want to be?
And if that still doesn't work try a really serious physical excercise program, get out of your mind and into your body.
2006-11-24 14:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's so difficult! - same thing with my ex husband - two years apart, but still nobody comes close to the way I feel about him. We can't be together, but I had to push him out of my life to achieve some things I needed to do in life. Still love him crazy, and we are both still alone, but a world apart. We can't be together for many years, but I'm able to wait - but I'm like you, I wish I could be like other people, and move on - maybe you should just start seeing people 'no strings' and just try to see that person, without comparing him to your ex - imagine you're starting afresh - if it doesn't work out - maybe you could talk with your ex - see for sure there is no future for the two of you?? Once you've been with the love of your life, it is very difficult to move on, 'cos you're forever comparing the new person to that love, and everything seems to come a very bad 'second'. Good luck to you! Whatever you do, don't settle for second best in life!! Better to be on your own and happy, than with somebody who doesn't make your soul 'dance'! One more thing, don't forget all the bad things about your ex - it's so easy with your memories to brush over the negative things, and only remember the good things - making your relationship seem so perfect, and harder to find another one like it - don't see your ex as Mr Perfect. All the best!!
2006-11-24 14:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lucia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get Eternal Life.
2006-11-24 14:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by eternallifer1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need professional help.
This has ruined your life for WAY too long.
2006-11-24 21:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so know where you are coming from.
2006-11-24 14:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋