Don't take the abuse. Talk to him and communicate that you don't like what he is doing, and if he doesn't stop, leave him.
If you keep taking the abuse, your life will get worse. Build your self confidence and if you can't survive without him, look for another person while you are with him and then leave his *** like Britney left K-Fed, by text message.
Or, do a bobbit on him....
2006-11-24 06:03:20
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answered by Frank A 1
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You have to talk this though with your husband, tell him when he treats you with so little respect and ignores what you say, it makes you question his love for you, ask him why he feels the need to treat you like this and also explain that is makes you uncomfortable when he hugs other woman, if he does not listen and still behaves in this manner, I suggest you either try counselling or have a trial separation, if he loves you then he will make the effort to change his ways but if he doesn't then I suggest a divorce.
2006-11-24 06:20:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Best solution is to see how he will react when he catches you hugging another man for a long time, maybe then he'll realise tat you need affection, and it seems to me you r not getting a lot from him. Play him at his own game other wise he will just totally controll your marriage, at th end of the day we all have needs, but he should have turned to you for that hug, i think there is a lack of comunication here, try talking to him and tell him exactly how hurt he made you feel, honesty is the best policy, there could be a reasonable explanation to his actions, you wont ever know if you dont ask. Good luck.
2006-11-24 06:19:39
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answered by mazza999 2
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The abuse to you is the thing I would worry about.....why....there is no need to behave in this way. If he has had lots of relationships then maybe he is just incapble of having a proper one....always has to be the firstflush of excitment or he cannot cope. He has notgrown up.....maybe? You need to talk to him.....if you can or seek concelling if need be and if he will. If you are young and on a hiding to no where think seriously aboutyour future. The hug.......a hug is a hug....and if all was well betwen you there would not be much thought given to this.....but as it is not the hug becomes an issue on its own. He maybe was offering comfort or simply playing....... with both your and the other womans emotions. He needs faced.
2006-11-24 20:47:16
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answered by eagledreams 6
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Maybe your husband feels flatterd that another lady came onto him,the age is not really any think to do with it,give him some slack,a hug,even a kiss is not the end of the world,who does he come home to YOU,who does he sleep with you,who get the real love You,not much to worry about have you,stay lucky
2006-11-24 07:31:54
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answered by barnowl 3
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I would leave him. I had a boyfriend that was absolutely lovely when he was in a "girlfriend mood", but he was horrible to the point of being verbally aggressive when he wasn't. Often he just ignored me. Looking back, I wonder why I stayed so long and why I didn't run away as fast as possible
2006-11-24 06:10:41
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answered by dark_rose287 2
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it seems this relationship is more one sided you seem to love and respect this bloke more than he does you, you are young and have a full life ahead of you tell him how hurt and insecure and sad he makes you feel, if he wont change then personally i would leave him why be a door mat for someonewho wants control over you and disrespects you in front of others, there are good guys out there who will treat you like a princess you just have to look hard
2006-11-25 02:23:03
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answered by Anonymous
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have a heart to heart conversation with him if you tell him he is hurting you he will listen and offer to make change if he loves you if he dosent respect you it will show because he will keep blowing you off like what you have to say is not important. If you really want him to respect you then leave if he dosent change he will either see that he is losing the best thing for him or you will be doing yourself a favor.
2006-11-24 06:04:11
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answered by tang 2
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as quickly as a cheater, continually a cheater, curiously.. You the two could desire to get into couples counselling, or lose this dbag. It would not appear like he values your relationship in any way, surprisingly for the reason that he pronounced he'd nevertheless be with the different woman had you not caught him. not a wholesome relationship in any respect. he's in basic terms gonna save doin it, darling. i think you're able to desire to purpose a separation.. He could omit you extra advantageous than he thinks. having pronounced that, it would not sound like this could be a relationship extremely worth saving.
2016-12-29 10:10:23
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answered by dobard 3
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if he cannot be honest with u, then the marriage might not last too long. try making friends with pple closer to ur age and u will find that u really do not need him dat much. no man is worth dying for. trust me. he will move on to the next woman the minute u are buried.
2006-11-25 16:05:22
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answered by bode 2
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