i love my husband, there's no doubt about this. even my lover says he belives i love my husband so much. but this should not stop me from pursuing my happiness, right? i mean, men do this all the time, so why should we women? actually, my lover says married women should be even proud of me as i am their revenge on womanizing husbands! (though my husband is a good man; but aren't playboys also do this thing on good women?); also, regarding this kissmark-on-armpits thing, is it the symbol of complete cukolding for my hubby, as my Ex says it is? this, he says, is the reason why he badly wants to mark my underarms with his kiss. Is there such a tradition in the male community?
2006-11-24 05:26:28 · 20 answers · asked by Charity D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Society's accepted norms of one man-one woman are obviously breaking down. Just because men do it, it is no justification for woman to follow the same path. It is unfortunate that marriage as an institution is threatened. This institution was society's insurance for stable family and a suitable environment for proper upbringing of children.We have a situation here when for a momentary pleasure all the marriage vows are thrown to wind unmindful of all consequences, if this kind of behavior comes in to open. It is bound happen one day with disastrous results.
2006-11-24 05:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible for a woman to love 2 or more men at the same time and they still get called a whore.
However you say you are married,that makes you an adultres and that gives your husband grounds for divorce. When you took your marriage vows,both you and your husband ageed "to foresake all others".
There is no such tradition in the male community that I know of.
2006-11-24 05:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer might seem too short, but please give it some thought: Why not? Discussion of the short answer: Think about love, or any emotion. What is fear? What is anger? What is love? These can be very complex, further complicated by the fact that each person will experience emotions in a unique way. While we might need to evaluate people's actions (what they say, and otherwise do), we cannot know what's going on inside someone, except by how that person communicates. So you and twelve trusted friends might say, "That's not love." But if the person feeling it says, "This is love," then that is the definition he uses. To think of it another way.... If one woman has such qualities that allow (or cause) a man to fall in love with her, is it impossible that two women would have similar qualities, the same qualities, or a different mixture of qualities that would allow (or cause) the same man to fall in love with both of them? Many things are possible. Can we say what is impossible within the mind or heart of another?
2016-05-22 22:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very possible to love 2 and maybe more men simultaneously, and apparently it is not uncommon, as I have learned (to my surprise). I have one huge grievance with my husband but otherwise still love him (check out my own Question).
My lover gave me a book to read. It's "What Has Love got To Do With It?" by Dr. Meredith Small. I would recommend it to any woman.
You write about an Ex so I guess you were married before but in that case divorced when you were attracted to another? You seem to still have good communication with him, but if your current husband is unawares of your lover I certainly would not get marked up so that he gets suspicious.
2006-11-24 05:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love your husband; that's bs. Your fellow adulteror is feeding you horsesh*t to keep you coming (pun intended). If you feel the need to cheat then do your husband a favour andivorce him so he can find a wife that will be faithful. You may not be a whore but you are an adultress and that's worse. At least a whore is smart enough to get paid for sleeping around.
2006-11-24 05:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your a whore. I asked a similair question the other day and thats all they wanted to do was call me a whore. I'm in love with two men right now as well and I really do trully love them both.
2006-11-24 06:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by mystical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would happen to you if you went through with your scheme, and your husband found out? He will divorce you...your ex will lose interest, and you will be alone. If you are going to partake in risky behavior than you have to be willing to handle the consequences. Regardless, your husband will find out. Perhaps, he already knows.
2006-11-24 05:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by Nut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beggars can't be choosers. Choose the one you love the most and hurry. Love your husband he said for better or for worse. The question you should be asking yourself is will my lover say for better or for worse. Think about it. You could rune something you have worked your whole life to build.
2006-11-24 05:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre a Whore. Period.
Why are You even Married?
2006-11-24 05:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.... you are not a whore unless you label yourself with it. You are, in fact, sinning. You do realize this, don't you? And, unfortunately, you appear very cavalier, almost noble about it. Time to step back and reevaluate your moral and ethical values sweetie.
2006-11-24 05:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by redslippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋