2006-11-24 05:23:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Isn' t that asking an awful lot?
Although I believe a husband should definitly be a support, a very good friend and partner, it isn't really healthy to get the "all inclusive package".
It is important to have friends and supports outside of the relationship, I think this gives the marriage perspective.
Having a husband who encompasses all of these features may seem like a good idea, but it may isolate you from other fullfilling, healthy plutonic relationships outside of the marriage.
The hard truth is that men and women communicate differently.
Women consider intimacy to be having conversations and sharing emotions.
Men often consider intimacy to be doing things together, sharing experiences. In western culture it is sort of "uncool" for men to share deep emotions regularly. In short, you cannot expect most men to want the same things out of a relationship as women do, and vise versa. Good friendships outside of the relationship, especially with those of the same sex are essential for a healthy marriage.
2006-11-24 05:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by madcatlover7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like women can't be a perfect package for a man. people are human not everyone has everything the other one wants. but you should make sure you get the neccessities down on what you feel is important to you and your partner your marrying.
yes you want him loving supportive and best friend. but don't get upset if he leaves a shirt and socks around these are petty things. i mean get whats important to you in a man.
yes best friend support lov9ing etc.. all those would be considered important don't forget love making.
2006-11-24 15:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say that my husband is my best friend, biggest supporter, best lover ever! I truly wish that everyone could eventually find this. Not to say that we are perfect...but we are perfect for each other. There are bumps in the road, but this is reality. I read somewhere that whatever bugs you about someone while you are dating, you can multiply that by ten, and that will tell you how much it will bug you once you are married. Sounds inflated, but it's not. My best wishes to your in your quest for your best friend, because that is truly the most important element in a husband/wife relationship.
2006-11-24 05:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean isn't that why you get married because the person your with loves you supports you and is like
your best friend. I'm in Canada and that is just a normal way of marriages up here but down south I do not know. So maybe come north to find the right guy I do not know all I know is that
I'm like this with my wife and I figured thats what most guys are to theres I guess I'm just weird.
2006-11-24 05:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becoz woman may not be a total package deal to her husband..Marriage depends both husband and wife..should be balance of their love, nature and care for each other..
2006-11-24 06:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you wouldnt have a reason for questions like this... No I am kidding I dont really know I feel like even woman who think their man has everything there is still something he is missing. Ive tried to find a man like that and I didnt but I am engaged to what I think is the closest think to it..
2006-11-24 05:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can. It depends on what you want. He can be your friend and support and probably does. (at times) What does a woman wish for? It seems to change a lot.
2006-11-24 11:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by Harris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes ladies we just simply wish for too much.
A man seldom is capable of being the "whole package", they are not built to please but instead be pleased.
We must choose our battles and wishes carefully and strike up the best deal possible.
2006-11-24 05:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not possible. because women are never happy for anything what they got. and man can not keep a woman happy always. he is also human being and he gets frustated some times.
The husband wife relation is different.
Man woman relation is different.
Friendship is different.
The way u can not call ur husband as ur brother.
2006-11-24 16:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can...with some communication. Guys are guys, they just dont get the subtle clues and hints...you need to tell them how it is and then once you tell them everything ...eventhough you fight about how you shouldnt have to tell them...they eventually get it. And they will get use to the "woman's" way and be that best friend, support and everything you want.....trust me. I know its cliche, but communication is KEY!
2006-11-24 13:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋