i moved from india last year.
all my frnds promised to call mail and be in contact with me.
but now its just me who makes all the efforts to be in contact.
its like they dont even care.
wat do i do?
i cant just stop, becuaes i love them.
2006-11-24 05:23:02 · 20 answers · asked by jello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i m trying to move on, but still i cant. making new frnds is kinda hard for me in USA. they r not even busy . they r going ona picnic and say they will miss me but i dunno.
2006-11-24 05:32:57 · update #1
they have my home address, my email address, my phone number and everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-24 05:34:27 · update #2
i have waited long enough for 1 year, how much more do i have to wait??????
2006-11-24 05:37:24 · update #3
give it time, settle down a bit first
2006-11-24 05:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by chi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i moved to UK from India 3 years ago, and went through a lot
'moving on' is not easy. it takes a lot of time.
all you need to do is stop trying too hard.
just be normal, go out, see places, meet people, be friendly and tell yourself that you moved for good, so you have to get on with your new life. there are some friends who are unique - you can never find same friends again. also culture difference is a big thing between east and west.
if you meet new people, welcome them in your life as new people dont compare them to your other friends
dont nag your old friends too much, mail them once in a while, call them once in a while, if they dont respond, dont take it too seriously
they want to move on in their life too. when people immigrate, you have to let go of certain relationships - not break up - but just reduce because things change with distance and thats a fact...
good luck
2006-11-24 06:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i Don't want to write a long story. I want to say that. .....
Just accept the Facts of Life.
U have no other option.
There may be lots of reasons, y they want to loss a good friend.
Well try to adjust there, but don't forget India, Indian and Indian Culture. And make some new good friends specially from India on the Internet.
Good Luck, Take Care
2006-11-24 18:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by manojatindia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends could be busy or un able to contact u for reasons best known to them. You can and should continue keeping in touch with them. Remember , never forget old friends when u make new ones. Keep trying , try and get them on a conference chat on yahoo messenger. I know u all would like that.
2006-11-24 05:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by indicav2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u should 4get them and over on and make new and better friends...maybe they cant call u b/c of the timing...im from pakistan and all my friends there cant call me b/c of the timing and they cant email me b/c they like NEVER get online b/c they dont have time/money 2 go out and buy a card 4 the internet
2006-11-24 06:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like any other kind of love, friendship can be lost within our lives due to neglect or anger or, sometimes, simply circumstances. However it is lost, we often lose a part of ourselves that can never quite be recovered.
You must carry on writing to them
2006-11-27 04:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...they are very unlucky for not being in touch with such a lovable friend. they will certainly come back to u. Send them "Getwell soon" Cards, as they are not feeling well. Otherwise they should have contacted you by now.
u can be a friend with me too....probably we can become the best friends too.
dailyvisit2003@yahoo.co.in
2006-11-24 16:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
putting efforts for being in touch seems to be going in vain so why dont u try and put tht effort in making new friends, may be in starting you may find it difficult but later with time u will be ok.
try it out, there isn't any harm in trying...
2006-11-25 00:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no need to wait for them now . u performed ur part and now it was there chance . it seams that they do not know ur value . i know these words are pinching but thats the truth . no problem , i want u to be my friend and i will keep my friendship,I promise.so here is my id -
johnabraham_sukhpreet@yahoo.co.in
bye and maybe i have got a new friend . thanks ......
if u are intrested then plz send me ur id.
2006-11-25 16:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by cancerian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, it's time to find new friends. old friends are great if they keep in contact with you. as long as you let them know of email, or 360. then you'll see how many true friends you have.
2006-11-24 05:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they might think now our bank is gone far away nothing is gonna we get anymore.. if they try to e-mail or call they cost a lot .. everyone is selfish here just love urself and love it..so ppl may love u ..
2006-11-24 06:06:01 · answer #11 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋