And changed his life around from drugs to jail and all kind of addictions.I been clean for 2 years,My little girl taught me how to love again.And i want a decent life and woman.
2006-11-24 04:55:16 · 18 answers · asked by Victorio 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hello:
Well I can only speak for myself, but if I am considering dating someone I look at the person they are now, not the person they were in the past. But not everyone will feel that way.
If I met someone who had a criminal past, and I had known them for a while and they had always treated me kindly and with respect, I would not judge them on who they used to be.
But I would suggest to you to be honest when you are looking for someone, and don't hide your past from her. If you are honest and tell her up front, she will realize that you have changed and that you aren't that man anymore.
I hope this helps, and good luck.
2006-11-24 04:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would my husband had a past he was a bad boy he had a problem with alcohol and drugs as well. I believe I helped him a great deal to become the person he is today. He still drinks on occassion but he now has a functional life and his own buisness.We just got married in September of this year. So to all the ladies behind alot of bad boys is a good person. Give him a chance he's changed his life
2006-11-24 05:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by BabyDolll128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I gather you have changed your ways. Now the trick is to keep an honest life. I think a guy in your position the hardest thing is cutting the ties to the past influences. (you know the buddies you associated with while in your previous life)
As far as getting back into the dating game, be upfront with whoever you are interested in. Say exactly what you said here, any gal who knows a guy is devoted to his children knows he is sincere.
So keep a honest, clean life, stay away from the past influences, keep loving your child and you will have no problem with the ladies. Good luck!
2006-11-24 05:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
certainly, the respond is not any. it may certainly rely on what form of criminal previous that individual has. something on an severe point, like raping somebody or killing a individual purposely would not be something suitable. consequently, i would not date a individual who has executed those issues. and that i surely would not date a guy besides when you consider that i'm a lesbian. yet as quickly as I had to assert what i think of is going on interior different womens heads while it is composed of relationship criminals or risky human beings... i could say i've got self belief its extra so the belief of a thrill extra suitable than them certainly liking criminals. i think of countless the time those women individuals are grew to become on by utilising adult adult males who're perceived because of the fact the "undesirable guy" form. Then while they get themselves right into a frightening subject/kinfolk w/ that guy they get caught attempting to be certain how they are going to get out.
2016-11-26 20:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by cornatzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and i have my hubby has been in jail and he did some things in his life that he is not proud of, but he turned his life around completely, and is a wonderful hubby and father.
** he did those things before we got together, and he was honest with me from the begining and thats what made me appreciate and love him more because its not like i found out about things later on down the road.. and i understand why he did what he did and i dont judge him for that... if you have changed your life, and you want to start a relationship with someone be honest with them in the begining and if they stay around you know that they care... if they judge you for your past you know that they are selfish and not worth it.
2006-11-24 05:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by summer ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. I havent had the greatest past either. I met my current boyfriend who is in prison, through a friend and we wrote to each other for 3 years and he will be getting out eventually and coming to stay with me. You have to put the past behind you!
2006-11-24 05:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on a recent question you posed, I would say you still have some issues to work out::
Do women Respect a tough jailhouse attitude?
Cause i kinda got one,trying to lose it but in the past that is my survival mode
2006-11-24 05:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what the criminal past is? But I guess only time could tell, just make sure and always be honest with the person.
2006-11-24 05:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by sasha_anton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women have problems with it, and some women find it very attractive when a guy has a "bad boy" reputation. you just have to be patient and let things fall in place for you
2006-11-24 04:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by felita2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't see why not. You just have to find the right woman to accept you for who you are and not for your past.
Keep moving forward. It will happen.
2006-11-24 05:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by FunBetty! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋