i have a very close friend, we are very good palls for a long time, and one day called me to meet that he has something to talk to me, ok i invited to my place. we talked as usual about some stuff, had a coffee, and suddenly he says that he cares much about me because i am he's best friend and that he's afraid of something, i asked why? and he said that i might not talk to him because he's gay. i was 2 seconds shocked, and then i laugh for 5 minutes and hugged him and said good for you.... and after that we continued talking about something else....
2006-11-24 03:56:53 · 14 answers · asked by soriasis m 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You will never know how much that really, really meant to your friend, and the best bit....."continued talking about something else" at least he will have some one he can trust should he have any problems in the future.
Bravo.
2006-11-24 04:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Paulo.GZ. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did great by your friend. Coming out is both liberating and terrifying all at once. And since there is so much prejudice against gay people in society, it's very important for those who aren't prejudiced against gays to set a different example and dynamic for their LGBT friends. Well done.
2006-11-24 04:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by FL LMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good for you. Every gay or lesbian should have a friend like you. My best friend is gay, he's a guy I'm a straight girl & I couldn't find a better friend then him.
2006-11-24 04:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world needs more friends and people like you.
2006-11-24 04:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did great. That's the kind of reaction a person remembers, and is thankful for, forever.
2006-11-24 08:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Zeke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did just fine. i can only hope more gay people coming out have Friends like you
2006-11-24 04:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a good man. God bless you - You did the right thing.
I'm PROUD OF YOU. You have a good heart in you. wish the friends I knew had been that way to me.
2006-11-24 04:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you did great! everyone needs great friends like you. my friends, family and coworkers have been equally supportive...and don't think any differently of me, either, when I came out to them.
2006-11-24 04:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did well; but how does he really feel about you? Are you sure that you are "just friends" or is it somethig more?
2006-11-24 05:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a wonderful friend! He's luckey to have you in his life!
2006-11-24 05:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋