I got a new job working as an sales assistant, my interview was today and at the end of my interview i was offered a job straight away. I have two years experiences but the thing is I've been unemployed since sept this year, i am actually very very nervous to start work tomorrow, i'm glad too, coz we need the money for christmas. It's just meeting new staff etc. I'm nervous, I can't eat. I may not be able to sleep either lol. oh help!!
2006-11-24 03:49:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
relax..
just remember the many situations that you encountered when you met the staff for the first time in your earlier jobs and more so important how you got through them. The answer lies there. Just the chemistry of a continuing smile, a firm handhake, and an eye to eye glimpse of everyone you meet tomorrow would perfectly take you forward.
2006-11-24 04:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by muppana_ms 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you begin working for a new organisation, it is entirely expected and desired that you ask questions, question what you think you should do, or do naturally and look to try and pick up the culture and working methods of the place. - If you smile a lot, and ask a lot of questions from other people this will help. It will also help you to manage your nerves, asking questions and interacting does this. (a bit like when people fiddle when they are nervous.)
You have done this job before, never stop telling yourself this. - That means that you know how to do it and you know how to get on with people. - At this time of the year, and especially on a saturday, people you work with, will be so busy and so pleased to have an extra pair of willing hands on board, that they will hardly notice the way you are feeling or any mistakes you might make. - Keep reminding yourself that this is normal and you know how to do this job. - By Monday, you'll be wondering why you worried. I promise.
Remember: it is ok to feel this way right now. Tell yourself, you are you, and you can do this and get on with other people.
You'll be fine, (its the people who dont have this reaction that have problems!)
Enjoy tomorrow.
2006-11-24 04:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Good luck be yourself no more no less!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-24 04:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isuggest to google PMR, it's called progressive muscular relaxation. It's a relaxation technique used by behaviour therapists where you are taught to clench and unclench various muscles, resulting in a relaxed state. There are various scripts available online to teach yourself. It really works! Also look up Diaphragmatic breathing techniques, these are used by behaviour therapists aiding people suffering nervousness and even panic attatcks. Failing these two, Bach rescue remedy (available from most chemists) is excellent. It is a solution that you consume two drops of and it has an extemely calming affect, it got me through my driving test. Good luck, you can do it!
2006-11-24 03:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-10 13:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sunni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a relaxing bath before you go to bed and maybe a mug of Horlicks. Hopefully then you'll sleep ok. Try not to panic - you'll be new to them too and they'll be wondering what sort of an impression they are going to make on you. Best of luck!
2006-11-24 04:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get over public speaking is to bite the bullet. Just visualize yourself doing well, everyone clapping because you did so well in the presentation. When they interview you after, you'll chuckle at the fact that you previously felt so nervous the day before. Nobody can tell that your nervous unless you tell them.
2016-03-12 21:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarling!!
They must like what they saw, so everthing is cool.
Just go in there and show them what you are made of!! This is your new start.
Approach not with fear, but with love...
All the best, I am proud of you!!!!!
Love
2006-11-24 04:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's natural to be nervous. just try to stay calm and enjoy it. no offence, but to take you on that fast, they're probably pushed for christmas staff so you won't be the only newbie there.
Relax and think of the moolah!
2006-11-24 03:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by le_coupe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax!!! You should look forward to it - more money & new people to meet. Just have lots of eye contact, big smile and be yourself!
Good luck!
2006-11-24 04:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Simon C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋