How many people want to forget about it and move on??

Question

Some people refuse to face the facts. Some people want to move on. I CAN'T MOVE ON. It's not over, it won't be over untill someone stops it. Someone help me stop it!!!

Answer 1

Considering how much like a nutter you sound, maybe you should jump out of the next window you see instead of "moving on".

Answer 2

Moving on or Change is not easy. Many times we could not see our shortcomings because we are so engrossed, other ways are not our way, we have been comfortable with what we are familiar with. Sometime we are not able to change because we are carrying a baggage, someone or something prevent us from changing.

We need to identify and understand what is preventing us from moving on. Do we have enough resources? What are we afraid of?

We CANNOT Change but we could manage change. This is because over time there are 4 aspects that affect us as we grow:
1. Environment that we live in
2. Social network and influences
3. Personal makeup / upbringing
4. Life Events that affect us (especially in decision making and choice)

I hope you make the right choice when moving on.

Answer 3

The point is that it's difficult to forget and move on if faced with facts after a protracted period of ignorance. It's easier to forgive oneself and drag on. But it takes amnesia to forget.
It's enough to forgive, you have not learned anything if you forget.

Answer 4

"you must be the change you want to be in this world" Mahatma Gahndi.

It is good that you are able to move on. And sometimes, you can't make others understand you.

Answer 5

Well, your right. You can't go on. First solve the problem then you'll feel beat her. Unless you want to live the problems run after you.

Answer 6

I DO !!!

I may not have forgotten but I have moved on... Dwelling on crap does no one any good !!