2006-11-24 03:28:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how can u ask such a q if i told u wat to do u be u then it won't be u, u'll be living my life and by my style. u don't need to ask anyone wat to do to be u it jus needs u to be u. I hope u get my point. noone knows u as much as u know yr self.
2006-11-24 04:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No person can tell you that. Take a book, pen, and go to a quiet place in your house, garden, park or wherever, and then think. Ask yourself: what to do I like, dislike, what makes me happy, angry, what to do I feel when this and that happen, list your passions (what gives you goosebumps, what makes you alive) and then you go on until you are happy. Set goals, believe in yourself and just do it. Of course you can be what you want, but it takes passion, faith and lots of hard work. Listen to advice but follow your head and do your own thing!
2006-11-24 03:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Blodeuedd 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can - but to be yourself you need to keep sticking to the choices you make about who and what you are. Don't box yourself in though by pretending to be something you aren't.
At your deepest level you know the truth about yourself, if that is unconventional or opposite to the main stream so be it. Be yourself anyway and let people take you as they find you.
Its your life, your choice - don't fit in with what others tell you you should be - thats how to be yourself..................
2006-11-25 04:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Wantstohelpu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let someone else tell you what to be you will never be the real YOU.
By all means, seek advice, but be natural. Shakespeare wrote,"To thine own self be true...." It is wise advice.
Keep workind at it.
I wish you well
2006-11-24 04:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have thought that the easiest person to get to know would be yourself. Apparently things don't work that way. I have no idea about me, and I can only wish you luck!
2006-11-24 08:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by kittykat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain true to your beliefs.
don't compromise your morals
just to fit in with the crowd.
be proud of who you are no matter what.
learn about your families history.
its always easier to figure out who you are
when you know where you come from.
i hope I've helped.
2006-11-24 04:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me being me, is to smile all the time, say completely frank things, dance in trafalga square in london, hug and high five loads of random people, dunno if that helps
good luck on finding the real u
oh and i'd suggest meditating, imagine yourself falling deep down all the rooms inside you till you get down to the last one, whats it like? whats in it? what can you see? hear?
also, create your own reality, dont be forced to live in the one that others create for you
xx
2006-11-24 05:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have all the answers in you.I know how hard it is to just be yourself, when you don't know who that is.That was my problem before.Learn to like yourself, explore the universe around you.
2006-11-24 03:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by Victorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM me i'll try to help u if i eally can but i think so
at this Id mahsa_metallica_pantera
2006-11-24 04:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by N0t Known Never Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noo dont you have a DREAM?? if you could be ANYTHING IN THE WORLD what would it be?? cuz then just go for it! you can honestly be anything you want to be if you put your head to it
2006-11-24 03:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by ♫ singin_gurl1200 ♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋