why does it take so long 2 years is tooo long and just because he won't sign the papers i wrote him a note last week and he replied sell the house .sell the truck and wanted me to pay and take over all the bills and wait sign it on a piece of paper . he must think i'm a jackass he's the jackass not me. You know it''s going to be his loss my gain. I even as I stated got sick so bad I developed sezuire and had 2 mini stokesam only 44 years old. His mom is part of the problem too. I told that something was wrong with her son but. she didn't believe me so. i just left as is . He is th baby of the family. He baby her and He baby him.They belong together. that's when I knew that I wanted a divorced His mom was troublemaker and I hate her too.
2006-11-24 03:20:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Patricia, we have talked in part about this. I went threw the same thing with my ex husband a long time ago. He didn't want the divorce either and it took me a long time to get mine as well. He can be made to sign those papers. He is a controlling type of man and he is thinking as long as he don't sign those papers, he still has some control over you. If you can try not to even talk to him at all. As long as he thinks he has controll at all over you, he is not going to stop. Don't let him get you down. Just keep pushing the issue. Mine was nit picking me, he would want something so small, picture, bottle of oil, etc. I did get mine, but was wondering.
2006-11-24 04:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going thru the same thing - coming up on 2 years but the marrage was over 3 or 4 years ago - so the main thing is now just move forward and not to let it bug you or let him get to you - to stress you out - some divorces are quick and some are not - I am 40 now and I joke maybe by the year 2050 it will be final - it dont mean you dont get to enjoy life just because he wont sign - just a game he is playing - maybe you could go for checkmate by saying sign or you will make him wish he did - or get better lawyer to help
2006-11-24 12:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by fastweeny66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's taking so long because there's property issues that need to be divided amongst the 2 of you especially if you have kids together- no mater what you do- don't let him get away wiht a bigger portion fo what also belongs to you. You sound frusttruated and want this all to be ovver but- think about it- onece the house is sold and everything else you have toether it will be like starting all over again- you've gonna need a house again and furniture etc. IF you can fight the house and some of what's in it- do it! get whatever you can oout of it before the divorce is final,
2006-11-24 11:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Took my divorce 2 years also. We had a lot of land, a home, plus 2 children to fight over. He left me, and I was more than willing to give him everything, except the kids but yet it was my ex that kept taking me to court over everything. Who left who in your relationship? If you left him, then he is expecting you to pay all the court fees, which is something I did also. Why should he pay if you left him? Then again, if he were the one to leave, then yes he should be made to pay. Keep pushing him into signing the papers. I'm sure sooner or later he will. He is trying to make you pay for actually asking for the initial divorce but he will get over it someday.
2006-11-24 12:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't have a lawyer! Get an attorney and it will be over in 60 days.
2006-11-24 11:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a mother in law just like that. I personally think she was in love with her son. it was sooo sick
2006-11-24 11:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting......you ask a question and then answer it with details.
I hope it helped. Does a person good to vent sometimes.
2006-11-24 11:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish it took that long to get married!
2006-11-24 16:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sally 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋