My ex boyfriend and I dated for about seven months in the 9th grade. He and I broke up the last day of school because of a stupid reason. I miss him terribly and I still love him. My friend leaked this information to him. So he knows I still love him. I tried to get over him and dated another boy in the summer. I went back to school and saw my ex. I realized i still love him. He and I are friends. He also started dating a girl this month. This girl is my friend and when I talk to her he comes up and wraps his arms around her. I gave my friend a hug yesterday and he was like what about me. He and I have moments that are clear that we still care about each other. A couple of days ago he consoled me while I was crying. A few weeks ago he gave me a piggyback ride. My friend says you can tell he still cares about me by the way he looks at me. Im so confused. What is he pulling? Is he trying to get me jealous. I was told she doesn't even like him and wants him to buy her stuff. Should I tell
2006-11-24 03:04:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
him that he is using her? I don't want him to think Im trying to ruin his realtionship. He makes comments about my chest and we kid around. What is he pulling?
2006-11-24 03:05:38 · update #1
He's not trying to make you jealous. You're already jealous. It's not your place to tell him anything about his girlfriend. First of all, you don't even know if those rumors are true. I know that you want something to be wrong with their relationship because you still like him. You asked this question earlier and you didn't get the answers that you were looking for. So you asked it again hoping that someone will make it okay for you to sweat your ex. The fact to the matter is...Your ex is in a relationship and there is nothing you can do about it. Stop allowing your ex to flirt with you because it is only making matters worst for you. When he flirts with you remember he has a girlfriend. You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too.
Move on and find someone else. This relationship is over. Don't jump on his back for rides it only makes you look easy. He will think that he doesn't have to get back with you because you are acting easy. Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? The only person that is getting hurt is you. I bet he's on the phone right now with his girlfriend so move on.
2006-11-24 03:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Inez 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do women individuals attempt to make adult adult males jealous? Whats with the extremely commonplace questions? extremely, if a guy is attempting to make you jealous extra suitable than probably you probably did something that harm him and he's immature so he's attempting to come back at you. Getting revenge enables them recover from the heartbreak i assume. only like each little thing else in relationships nonetheless, this one is going the two strategies.
2016-11-26 20:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this guy is just trying to play with you and your friends emotions and your falling for it. I don't see how you can be friends with a guy who is so obviously trying to make you hate your friend. Why would he do all this stuff in front of you if he was your friend. He knows how you feel about him. This reminds of an episode of Saved by the Bell. Maybe he still hurt and doesn't know how to get over you. Were you his first crush? Because if you were it's going to take sometime for him to get over what he use to feel.
2006-11-24 03:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by momo13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her he is usuing ehr bc then it will look like u r just trying to get him back.
find a new guy and baisically have a ton of fun with him (or just look like you are when that other guy is around)
and maybe that guy will want you back even more, and then he will ask you out and ya'll can be together again
2006-11-24 06:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by QWERTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if this guy is playing with your emotions - that is never good. Stay away from him and try not to allow him to confuse you because it only hurts. It seems that he wants you to continue being interested in him, but that isn't fair when he isn't ready to be with you alone.
2006-11-24 03:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont clear it up here go ask and find out -dont get used or hurt it is perfectly ok to clarify where you stand --games are for the immature
2006-11-24 03:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have a nice, friendly chat with him...be like:
"so, how are things with {...}. Seeing you two together really reminds me of the good time we had together. I kind of miss you, i mean it, how about you?"
and wing it from there.
2006-11-24 03:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you two are playing games and your friend will get some hurt along with you two if you all continue.
2006-11-24 03:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him if he doesn't date her anymore he will come back to you instantly
2006-11-24 03:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is tring to make you jealous!!!!!!!!!!! NO you should not tell...........never ever put you nose in someone elses relationship it will just turn out badly for you!!!!!!
2006-11-24 03:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋