my bestfriend is anorexic and bulimic. she's in clinic right now, but all she thinks of it is basically just a hangout for her + her friends at clinic. ever since 7th grade, she's been on and off about the anorexic thing. then in 8th grade, she found bulimia. now in 9th, the clinic isn't seeming to help for she still eats, but not that much + she stops bulimia + starts up agian. she doesn't have a healthy love/friendship/ or family life right now + is going through a lot. is there anything i can say or do to help/make her stop ? please help.
2006-11-24 02:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by yourprettyhot123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
unfortunately...this is something she must WANT to do for herself!!! All you can do is make sure that you are a GOOD friend to her...by that , I mean don't "enable" her to continue her unhealthy habits...let her know how much you care about her and love her...and want her to be AROUND in your future as well as her own!!! Give her encouragement...and hopefully she will see the seriousness (very soon!) of her condition...by being in the clinic environment...they will hopefully be able to find a way to get through to her with you love, help and support!! Good luck to you!!!
2006-11-24 02:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by photogram1 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if the clinics can't help her and that is no surprise, this is a very difficult self destructive disease to help, never mind cure. All I can suggest is that you be her friend for as long as you are able, It is very difficult to stand by and watch some one commit suicide very slowly and have no way to stop it, Also remember if she can not stop herself, she will not stop for you, so do not even go there, and use it as a condition of friendship
2006-11-24 04:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already made the mistake of giving access to your boyfriends, not much you can do. I just have to ask you, what is ily ily? Is this a person's name? Or is there a meaning to the word? Maybe you should look for new guys and keep them to yourself this time. Good luck
2016-05-22 22:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her some help she just might think shes ugly or fat because something happened with a guy or girl however she rolls and you need to tell her that she is a wonderful girl with wonderful looks and that she can do great things but not while shes doing ok
2006-11-24 03:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one of my freinds mom was like that she ended up dying two days before my friends birthday she is slowly killing herself she is proably like that because somethimg went wrong in her social life maybe she should try consiling
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try it
2006-11-24 03:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by Applekisses11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her, and let her know that ythere are people that love her, and cant stand to see her like this.And just say that you will do anything to help her.
2006-11-24 03:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica D 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to help her, then explain to her that you are there for her when you need her. Hope I helped you :)
2006-11-24 03:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Steph♥ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
pray for you friend. be there for her when she needs you.
2006-11-24 03:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Inez 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋