i am 14,.i got pregnant.dont know what to do.i cant tell him.i cant tell anyone.my stomack hurts..i throw up all the time.i..bleed alot..but i cannot go to doctors cause i am scared..can i move on by myself..help me please!
2006-11-24 02:47:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
ok kid, listen to this
-first of all you need to tell the guy...you didn't got pg on your own and he needs to face the responsibility too.
- You also need to tell your parents...I know you are scared but right now you and your baby need propper care. Since you are so young, your pg is considered a high risk one, so you and your bf need to tell so that you get the help you need.
- Bleeding a lot is not normal while pg....you could be also miscarrying which means you need to go to your dr or ER and get checked, you could get an infenction or something else...you could be risking your life...you need to TELL!!!!
you need to go a dr ASAP!
2006-11-24 03:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey girl,
Don't freak out to much OK? I just turned 15 in July and I am 7 months pregnant. I know what you are going though. So take a DEEP breath. What I can say is take baby steps. Do you know for sure that you are pregnant? If you do call the baby's father right when you are finished reading this okay? You guys need to figure it out together what y'all want to do. Adoption is a good choice if he isn't willing to be there for you and the baby. But at this time you will need full support. Then when you get back to school you need to go to a school counselor. Ask then if there is a pregnancy counselor there, which there should be, and go to that person. If there isn't a pregnancy counselor then just open up to that counselor. Tell them your situation and if you don't want to tell your parents then ask that teacher too. That is what I did. If you would like ask to talk to the parent on the phone and ask if you can stay at a friends for a couple days because you need some "alone time", that will give it time for the steam and anger to die down. Then you will have to face them after a week at the most. You need to let them get their feelings out because they feel to baby girl. I'm not saying it will be good feelings believe me I would know that. But you have to see it like they do, Their baby is pregnant. After that everything will be okay, you will have doctors appointments and no more stress. and if you need to talk feel free to ALWAYS e-mail me at Jill71691@yahoo.com i check it everyday.
-Jill
2006-11-24 03:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
According to previous questions you should be just about due for this baby. You need to confide in your mother and get checked out soon. The last thing you want on yor head is if the baby died due to lack of care. If you need someone to talk to who knows what your going through my yim is midnightmoet I had my first a month after I turned 15.
2006-11-24 07:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide on whether you want to keep this baby or not and you should let the father of the baby know that you're pregnant. It's very hard to keep this a secret because your stomach will keep on growing and eventually, the baby will come out. You need to talk to your parents and see a doctor immediately. Regular check ups are necessary to have a healthy baby. These check ups will also help you determine whether you're healthy or not during pregnancy. You should make sure that you have health insurance. Doctor visits and hospital fees are not cheap.
2006-11-24 02:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can, and must go to a doctor. What ever you tell your doctor is absolutely safe as it is illegal for him/her to tell any other person. Please do not be afraid doctors are there to help you, their only aim is your well being. At 14 you are too young to go through the trauma of birth and taking the responsibility of having a child - you are only a child yourself. Please have a termination and return to a life that you will destroy if you allow this pregnancy to progress. I wish you every possible good fortune and a proper future life.
2006-11-24 03:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by U.K.Export 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really need to tell someone, eventually someone will realise what is going on.There is no way you can keep a pregnancy secret and this is too much for you to deal with by yourself. Your parents might be angry or disappointed to start with but they love you and wouldn't want you to go through this by yourself.Is there a councellor or something at your school that you could talk to in confidence, or a relative that you trust, maybe they could help you to tell your parents. Please tell someone about this, you need to deal with it one way or another and it will be easier when you have the support of someone else.
2006-11-24 02:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by jo h 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk with your mother, if you were my child I would want to know if things were okay with you, Im sure that no matter what your Mom loves you and wants whats best for you and now more than ever, you are going to need her help, good luck
2006-11-24 03:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I looked at your past questions and you are a liar. Stop making this crap up and grow up.
2006-11-24 03:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by Pashta 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋