i am 27yo my bf is 20 and he is the best partner i been with but i also have a girlfriend i been with for 6years but i dont love her any more i not married to her but i want to marry my partner reece i in love with him
2006-11-24 02:30:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be honest and tell the truth, thats the only sure way to sort out your problem.
2006-11-24 02:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think of the superb factor to do is save reminding her which you're there for her, the two on the tip of a telephone or a textual content cloth or 40 5 minutes away or maybe though, and merely cos you're no longer jointly does no longer mean she's on my own. And tell her which you're continuously there for her so she will come to you rather than her ex, tell her that it hurts your emotions and she or he could understand, whether obv. it is not continuously that easy. How approximately seeing in case you may get one weekend off or some days and then ask your self her and bypass and notice her, which would be ace! solid luck :) Emma xx
2016-10-04 07:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your sake i really hope it is not a faze your going through, cause 6 years is a fairly long time!!!
think back to when you stopped loving her, was it the love the stopped first of the gay guy which came first.
And if after all that introspection you realize you really love the dude, jus sit her down and tell her that you don't love her anymore. If i were you i would leave out the 'other guy' part .
2006-11-24 02:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by kittykat42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you didnt "become" gay you discovered that you were gay. Unfortunaly it came at a time when you were romanticly invovled with a women. That is a very tricky situation to be in. i suggest letting her down gently and always be there to talk to. If it gets ugly than dont try to save it. if she truely thinks your an amazing person (as im assuming she does being in a 6 year relationship with you) she should understand and respect it, and you may gain an amazing friend.
2006-11-24 02:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy is your girlfriend in for a surprise.
So your in love and "became" gay after three months and you want to get married. Should there be any truth in your situation then you owe this poor girl one hell of an explanation, she needs to get on with her life.
Best of luck.
2006-11-24 03:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Paulo.GZ. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you become gay in 3 mth's, you had too know that you was gay before you got into a relationship with your girlfriend. Now you are going to break her heart once you tell her..
I suggest that you tell her asap, and get it out the way....
2006-11-24 05:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Vicky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to tell her and that is to be open and honest with her,she will thank you in the end, the more excuses you try to think of will only make it harder,and the end result is only going to be the same, but tell her you would like to keep her as a friend. Good luck.
2006-11-24 02:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by DOROTHY M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
set her down and say that she should start seeing new people
your gay now (and welcome to the community) so there really isnt a nice way to do this. Its kinda like pulling teeth it hurts getting it done and you are gonna feel like crap the next couple of days but just look to that hot guy sitting next to you and smile because you made the right chose.
2006-11-24 02:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sort this situation out now because you are not being fair to yourself or your girl. you will feel so much better and then you can live your life the way you want to with your boyfriend. yes there will be tears but you owe her honesty after 6 years. good luck!
2006-11-24 02:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend. I do not speak English very well, but I am learning. I readed your question and I'll try to answer. I wait that you like.
You need to tell to the person. If you don't love anymore, you can not give esperances. If you do not tell, the person will become sad. Please, find a mode of to tell, call...send a mail...make all possible.
How was my answer?
2006-11-24 02:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by Vinícius 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
congratulations for coming to terms with your sexual orientation. tell your girlfriend. after spending 6 years in a relationship with you, she deserves some honesty.
3 months and you want to marry the guy already? slow down...
2006-11-24 02:38:16 · answer #11 · answered by Spyder 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋