look what my ex friend wrote plzzz answer wouldnt u feel depressed whaT should i do?

Question

YOU WISHH THAT WAS YOU IN THAT PIC . YOU FAT *** WHORE , SO HOW MANY ***** DID YOU SUCK THIS PASS WEEK ***** . OH THAT RIGHT NO ONE WANTS YOU CUZ YOUR A FAT *** , SO DO SOMETHONG ABOUT IT ***** . SHELBY'S COUSIN WILL NEVER GO OUT WITH YOU SO WHY DO YOU HAVE TOO START **** WITH ME FOR . YOU GOING TO TELL YOUR MOMMY ON ME LOL ..... LOSE SOME WEIGHT YOU FAT *** WHORE . AND DONT GOING TELLING ME THAT SOMEONE ELSE WAS ON IN YOUR NAME SAYING THIS CUZ I KNOW BETTER THAN THAT , SO DONT GO ******* WITH ME ANYMORE R YOU WILL BE SORRY . SO WHAT YOU SHOULD BE DOING RIGHT NOW IS LOOKING IN THE MIRROR AND LOOK AT YOURSELF . YOU MAKE ME SICK . ***** AND DONT GO CRYING NOW TOOO YOUR MOMMY LMAO

i feel worthless now

Answer 1

Wow sweetheart. I know how that is. I have been over weight a good part of my life. So most people are going to tell you to ignore what she said cause you are better than that. Well darlin you are better than that... but if you would like some good comebacks.. I've got years of practice. For one.... I love to say... well I may be fat... but you're ugly and I can lose weight... It's gonna take you a lot of money to fix that monstrosety you've got goin on. And then there's.. "wow it must have taken you a long time to come up with insults like that... now did you think of them all by yourself?" and "You know....my weight is an easy target...here's a thought....next time you want to try to hurt me, try coming up with something a little more original.....oh yeah... well that takes brain power now doesn't it? sorry about your luck."


Now I'm not one for getting into childish things like that. But you've got to stand up for yourself. And if anything the only thing I do when people call me names is insult their intelligence. Cause honestly, if they had any, they would be coming up with something better than calling me fat.

And don't let her intimidate you honey. You are way better than her and that chicks' cousin. Obviously he isnt good enough for you and never was. Be strong and remember... you are beautiful....no matter what other people think. You have something in you that they obviously don't have. You have a heart.

That girl especially isn't as comfortable with herself as she may portrey. She pounds you down cause thats the only way she can bring herself up.

*hugs* Take Care.. and if you ever need to talk just email or im me. my ID + @yahoo.com

Answer 2

My advice:... If you really do believe this is love, don't lie to yourself or her. Take a risk. You should try asking her for coffee or dinner. Take the risk. Let her know how you feel. Perhaps you both are meant to be with each other. You will never know if she's the one for you if you don't try. The only thing I say, don't play games. Don't "tease" each other to the point where, like you said, 'wreck the friendship'. If she indeed feels the same way, then you both will have the opportunity to mend any disagreements which split you in the beginning. But, it is better to know and know where you stand, than forever hold that thought that "it could've been". If she does not feel the same way, then my advice is for you to back off little by little. Because the day after tomorrow, if she meets an individual whom she wants a relationship, your heart will be heartbroken. And that, may cause you to NOT be a good friend. One step at a time. Act, don't react.

Answer 3

First of all there is no reason you should feel worthless. What this person has to say about you is there opinion and not what you are. They are clearly mad at what ever you did and this is how they get back.

No other persons opinion of you is more important than yours. If you feel that what they say is right then of course it will hurt you.
There is a good chance your not that heavy....they are just using that. What else is going on here is not clear. Sounds like you may have taken something away from them or they think you did.

Pay no attention to this. What they say has nothing to do with you. It's their anger speaking. However from now on try your best to always do what is right for you. As long as you feel good about it no other opinion counts.

Too bad this person lost a good friend. Someone else is waiting for you to be that friend to them.

Answer 4

If u are fat (sorry) and what ur body. I was going with an older man and im 18, he said he'd liked me for time, i'd liked him i ended up sleeping him and older women hated me. It all went ****** up anyway and i know people think im a slut especially 1 women, she has a staring problem, cuz he turned her dwn, and i feel like sayin "luk ur just jeolous"

And what if u mite sleep around as long as u got ur plesure and it was fun it doh matta.

U should write back 2 her and say luk ur acting like a baby, u need 2 grow up. Doh let no-1 tlk 2 u like that not even ur ex best friend if my m8 spoke 2 me like dat omg she know about it!!

Answer 5

look my mom tell sme you cant loose what you never had and thats helps me in many cases. i mean look she keeps calling you fat right well think about it i cant loose what i never had. she probably doing this to head you to the guy that she is talking about she's trying to crush you so if he was interested and you stoped talking to him then he would start talking to her. ive been in this problem many of times. they write thsi things instead of telling you to the face because they are scared so dont harp on it cause she's scared that you might get the guy. so just forget her and keep doing what you are doing cause look saint everything. and it seems to me what you are doing is working cause she see chance other wise she wouldn't of wrote that to you.

Answer 6

It's hard to answer a question about this without knowing what happened in the first place.

Answer 7

more to this than meets the eye. what did you write her first? (she refers to not telling her that someone else was on in your name---I guess that's email or IM?) Something sparked this. Tell the whole story before you ask for help.

Answer 8

That person sounds like a freaking lunatic! Ignore that foul-mouth fvcking psychotic!

Answer 9

Dont mind her.She is just blabbing..And besides why did she write that kind of letter to u.Did u steal her guy or something ,if u did it serves u right.But if u didnt ,she is an idiot.


ASK UR CONSCIENCE

Answer 10

Don't let other put you down....You have to love yourself for you!

These are just words....push delete on that message or tear it up if its on paper.....and then IGNORE them.

You don't need people like that in your life.
They are called downers....>>> I 'd keep walking and not even look back.

best wishes.....