i mean just like fingering him there and stuff
he said he might wanna try it but doesnt know
how exactly do i do it?
2006-11-24 01:17:52 · 16 answers · asked by yourguardianangel88 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I say get some toys, lube up and have fun! No harm in that!
But I must ask...what does this question have to do with Gay, Lesbian, etc, section of the question/answer board?
2006-11-24 01:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, you shouldn't do anything you are not comfortable with. That being said, experimenting can be fun and very pleasurable. What you're talking here about isn't really a big deal. Most of the pleasure he is going to feel is going to come from external stimulation of the anal region. You really shouldn't need to penetrate very deep at all in order for him to feel it. Some Ky gel or Vaseline might be a good idea, but in the heat of passion... it might ruin the mood. You certainly wouldn't need much.
2006-11-24 01:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with him and ask for his user-friendly answer, yet do no longer do it in the warmth of the 2nd (or good after for that be counted). Ask him how he feels approximately anal intercourse, and how he feels approximately doing it with you. communicate approximately your intercourse existence overtly, and doubtless you will attain a compromise. in case you come back to a style to do the two, be careful. in case you have anal intercourse till now vaginal intercourse, you will get the germs and bacteria residing on your rectum into your vagina and reason a bad, uncomfortable an infection. So, communicate it over, be risk-free, and enjoy!
2016-10-17 11:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by leong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use some KY on your fingers just not the Warming Liquid one (I'm sure that wouldn't feel too good). Tell him he's got to relax himself and almost push a little when you first go in. If you have long nails, cut them. You want to try to stay more towards that piece of skin by his scrotum where the pleasure zone is. Oh, and don't go in and out real fast his first time, that particular hole will not handle what yours can.
2006-11-24 01:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If fingers are enough to please him, use plenty of lube. If he wants something larger, they make vibrators and other instruments for such pleasure. Some guys very much like to have their prostate massaged and you can do that for him. Lots of lube and no sharp fingernails or use gloves. Go slowly and have him let you know what feels good. Good for you.
2006-11-24 01:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK go to a local sex shop and see if they could help. my husband and I tried it he actually really like it. no I don't do it all the time but he did enjoy it. make sure to use a douche, other wise it really is disgusting.
2006-11-24 01:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by a.gatenby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes after a shower or in it lots of lube and make him beg for it.tease him first
2006-11-24 12:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lick your finger and do it. You need lube. Good luck.
2006-11-24 01:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're up for it, go for it. Try it first as an accompaniment to other activities he already likes. If you want to work on your technique first, practice on yourself.
2006-11-24 01:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. One he experiences the feeling, he will be hooked.
2006-11-24 01:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by beachguy_41 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋