2006-11-24 01:14:00 · 47 answers · asked by chriswaugh393230 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
learn to keep it in your trousers.
2006-11-24 01:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Take a deep breath and relax. . . . Now dont worry some things come natrually hun, of course ur gonna b scared but at the end of the day ur gonna b a daddy. There are planty of websites and books which are there to help people both mother and father. Yeah ok u r young like evry1 is saying but at the end of the day no matter how many people are nasty about it it wont change it. Dont get ur self in a fuddle, relax and enjoy being a parent, just keep in mind that they will never thank you for anythink u try 2 do which u no is best 4 them lol. There isnt a guide book on how to be a parent u just need to go with the flow.
Good luck and congratulations xxx
2006-11-27 01:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stephie.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a victim of "NO-DADDY" syndrome. I know you are going thru a very hard time in your life, but the best thing for that child would be 4 u 2 be a man and stay there. U may say"well Im not a man", but u did a "man" thing so you have to step up and handle a "mans'" responsibilities. It will be worse to leave and try and come back. Stay.
God bless.
2006-11-24 11:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG my friend is haveing the VERY same problem you are. What you should do like I told him was to tell your parents, make sure you go to the doctor regularly and any medical stuff your parents and your doc can help you with but your girl, well you CAN NOT bail out on her shes really going to be emotional and she;s going to need support from you. You need to be there for her even if shes gettin on your nerves stressin her out can have bad results for the baby. There's a book called What To Expect WHen Expecting or something like that get that for your girl and read it with her. It might strengthen the bond between you two and you'll know a little bit what you are in for. But yeah need anymore help email or IM me on yahoo.
2006-11-24 04:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ellion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to take responsibility for your actions, yes, but you are just a lad yourself so do listen to your adults, listen to advice, and be supportive to the mum. You probably won't stick together at your age, but remember that if you can stay in the child's life then it will be the best thing for it. You can be a role model and make sure that he/she doesn't make the same mistakes which is what this is at your age. we all make them, some more serious than others but whatever, the baby must come first now.
2006-11-24 05:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is just be prepared to help out. I take it you are not married, but are you living together? Some teens do, but if ot a lot of pressure is going to be on her after the baby is born. Taking care of a baby requires a lot of work and no sleep. don't take everything you get told seriously. No matter how much you try to help she is going to be tired and possibly cranky.
Try to get everything you can for the baby. You have to grow up now. It is your baby and your responsibility. Even if you and the mother don't wind up together, you will always have that baby. A baby needs love even if the parents don't get along. Just be there to support your baby as much as you can. You will want special time to bond and this will give mom a break.
Make sure you are getting all the help you can from your state. If there is a WIC office they can help with formula. Be sure to, if anyway possible, both of your graduate high school or at least get your GED.
Good Luck with everything and enjoy your child!!
2006-11-24 01:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
There is a great charity called LIFE UK whi will be able to advise you. They have triained advisors on a free phone number who are really great and non-judgemental. They can also give your partner some tips on being a new mum and they run support groups for people in similar situations to yours.
0800 915 4600
or text 'talk' to 07786 200 330
2006-11-26 20:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by MrsC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should have been safer but that is a little late to tell you that! What you should do is be a man about the whole thing even if you are not staying with the mother you two are connected for the rest of your lives now! You need to be there for her go to the doctor with hermake sure she has everything she needs Trust me its hard to be pregnant and i bet it is even harder to be pregnant and 16 so just be there for her you chose to grow up too fast now you have to raise a child. If you need someone to talk to you are more than welcome to e-mail me i am only 20 and going to have a baby so I know that it is hard and I have already graduated high school so it will be even harder for you but like i said e-mail me or IM me if you want
2006-11-24 01:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
First of all congratulations on being irresponsible. Not only did you mess up your life but also that of the mother as well as potentially that of your child. SInce there is no turning back now you have to step up and face the music. DO NOT abandon them. You'll want to get a job to support them. And give yourself a pat on the back for a job well done!
2006-11-24 02:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by World of Suffering 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow that is a life changing situation....my only advice to you is what has already happened....happened. You cant change it now. So make the best of it...support the mother and see your baby as much as you can...that is your child for the rest of your life....and everything will work out in the end it always dose.....i would just like to say dont be one of those in and out dad's that see's his child once in a while...youll regret it in the long run....keep your head upp and dont listen to the negitive comments that are listed above me.
2006-11-24 03:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by greyc143 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont panic, im 17 and pregnant, my boyfriend was only 17 at the time he is now 18 and really looking forward to it, just remember support the girl who is pregnant alot she will need it and always be there for your baby, most lads walk away which is wrong but if you dont your a brave lad and you will love every minute of being a dad, trust me, you will get used to it.
good luck and congratulations.
2006-11-24 04:51:08 · answer #11 · answered by loubabe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋