2006-11-24 00:38:51 · 14 answers · asked by gabbu 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The best revenge is to have a beautiful life. Let it go.
2006-11-24 02:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I know that I didn't do anything to deserve feeling humiliated about, then I do not acknowledge any humiliation. If I did do something, and somebody happened to reveal it, I consider I deserve it, and designate it a "learning tool" to remind me never to do that particular thing again. In short, I turn a negative into a positive, and then move right along. I see no reason to "teach the person a lesson", but think of it more as having learned a valuable one myself.
2006-11-24 08:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by sharmel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do not take revenge of him/her but when that person falls into a problematic situation, let it be you the first to save that person. This will make that person, uneasy towards you and will be in an embarrasing situation.
If you try to take revenge on him/her you are really doing what they did to you and again that person may humiliate you.
But if you had shown that person that whatever they do to you, you always care them, they will never try to humiliate you but will protect you from others any time.
This will create bonding relationships between both of you. If such a relationship occurs, there's no chance that person will try to humuliate you in his/her lifetime.
BYE
2006-11-24 08:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by Imtiyaz G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mt first recommendation is that you get back at them by not letting them destroy you.
A blatant attempt to humiliate you is clearly that person's attempt to take away your power.
Don't give them your power.
If you must do/say something. comment to them (in front of others) "Wow! That was really mean-spirited of you. Be careful, your true personality is showing." Or say something to another person "You better not get on their bad side!"
If the person went out of their way to be mean to you, then there is no way you will be able to teach them any lessons. They won't get it. Karma will take care of them, anyway.
2006-11-24 10:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually I try to accept when being humiliated.
To teach that person a lesson, I will remain silent or I will reply by a few words only whenever he try to speak to me again
2006-11-24 09:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Meemee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't, I just let karma do its thing... or I wouldn't talk to that person until things are leared up between us... some of those tyes of experiences often didn't put to an end, I still hated the person lol... Maybe someday I'll totally lose those feelings... but not now..
2006-11-24 08:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you retaliate in any kind, you are bringing yourself down to their level. Feel sorry for them and get your friends to give you support but not join in. Show how they are beneath contempt and go on with life in a positive manner. There are more positive things in life but people dwell on the few bad things. Enjoy the good things about life and quickly move on from the bad.
2006-11-24 08:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by ask this dummy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what the person did (1) Look for an opprotunity, without breaking the law, to do the same thing they did to you, or something similar, back. (2) Ask yourself how much, if you don't HAVE TO put up with them, this person means to you. After figuring that out, depending on what you decide, dump them...life's too short to mess with people like that.
2006-11-24 09:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say "that was really humiliating. Why did you do that? Would you like it if someone did something similar to you? Apology accepted. It's over.
2006-11-24 09:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by babydoll 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Paitence. The more uptight you are about something, the less likely you are to succeed. Bide your time and the moment will present its self sooner or later, but remember it might not be you who is the perpetrator of the karma
2006-11-24 08:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by holmegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋