my daughter is almost 9 year's old and has been picked on by the same girl on and off since the age of 6 half year's, at first i told her to stand up to her, but this didn't help,she punches & kicks &pulls my daughters hair, but now she's told my child she isn't going to stop untill she leaves the school and if my daughter tell's anyone she will cut off her hair & everyone will think she's mad and will be sent to a mental hospital, im discusted the school dont see what's going on & feel sad my child puts up with this crap every day, dont know what i should do ,my daughter want's to change school's now, im now thinking it may be our only option now
2006-11-22 23:45:47 · 11 answers · asked by anita k 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Don't you ever have parent-teacher conferences? Ask for a meeting with the teacher (preferably with the principal along) and tell them what's going on. Bullying behaviour can't be tolerated.
2006-11-22 23:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get the school and this other girl's parents involved immediately. There is no reason why your daughter should change schools over this. If anything, this other girl should be kicked out. Bullying is completely unacceptable, and no school worth its salt will sit back and do nothing about it.
Go straight to the Head teacher about it. Get the girl's parents into the school and have a civilised meeting about the whole issue. Your daughter will have to give a full account of exactly what has gone on, and when, and the other girl will have to give her side of it. Your daughter is too young to be dealing with this alone, and clearly her own attempts have been unsuccessful. It's time for the adults to step in before this gets completely out of hand.
2006-11-22 23:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this is a big problem- I was bullied. A lot of people get bullied. What I did was I told my teacher but she didn't do anything about it, so my next approach was going to see the principle. I showed her my bruises and cuts. And she got on that right away. You and your daughter should go see the principle or someone like a teacher and tell them what she's doing to your daughter or if you don't have time for that, ask your daughter for the princible's e-mail (for school) and if you have a digital camera take pictures of what ever she's done to your daughter and attach it to the e-mail. Tell He/She what you wrote to all of the people answering this question. I'm pretty sure he or she will listen to what you have to say! But your daughter's bully can always turn into her friend! Now the bully who used to push me around is one of my best friends!
Hope this helps!
2006-11-23 00:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lilabelle ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to make an appointment with the instructor and tell the instructor you want their help to provide up this. in case you do not get any help or pride there, because you've all waiting been to the important contained in the district you want to take extra drastic action and communicate with the different youngsters father and mother and note if their baby has been bullied by this female. in case you come across others on your boat with you, you want to march into the principals workplace mutually and handle the topic and demand something be finished. If after that you're literally not getting the pride you want on your baby you've a pair concepts. a million. you could pull your daughter out and homeschool her OR 2. you could seem into open enrollment for a neighboring district for the autumn and pull her out to bypass faculties then. contained in the period in-between some assertiveness preparation gained't damage your daughter any. She has the right to safeguard herself even as needed. What i come across pitiful is this important and instructor who stand by and watch it and imagine that's perfect habit from this different female to attempt this on your baby. If after addressing it in each and every way attainable you do not get pride and also you've a regulation on the books about bullying you could favor to search for advice from a legal professional. contain the school contained in the lawsuit becuase they of direction knew and did no longer something.
2016-11-29 09:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your daughter not to put up with it and get crazy. At 9 years old, what is the other girl really going to do? Come on... Don't let that girl with no parental guidance bully your daughter. If I were you, I would get all up in the moms face, because her daughter should know better, and she should know what her kid is doing. If that were my daughter, let me just say that would not be good.... Discipline is what the bully needs...
2006-11-22 23:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell the teacher on her. or the principal. have a conference and tell her parents that she (your daughter) is so upset she wants to leave schools. That should do it.
2006-11-22 23:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the girls parents and ask them to get the girl to stop bullying your daughter if they refuse threaten charges (that'll get thier attention)
2006-11-23 00:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enroll your daughter in a self defense class such as judo or
karate. she can defend herself without being a bully.
2006-11-22 23:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by daniel b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like it might be the best bet..
they had a girl on the news last night.. who was getting bullied and she switched schools and she was much more happier
2006-11-22 23:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get her school changed, but go to school and complain about the other child too.
2006-11-22 23:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋