My partner and I have recently seperated. Whilst we were together my social life was somewhat limited due to having a family and staying in to look after the kids. Now I find my evenings sheer hell, I know I need to get back 'out there' but frankly am just terrified by the thought...
2006-11-22 23:31:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know getting out there might seem scary right now.....however try doing different things each week....see what your comfortable with......do some things with your kids....go to a park, take them skating, or swimming. For yourself why don't you try getting active...join something where you can meet new friends...Do you like any sports? Go to the gym, or join a yoga class...or something like that.......
I'm sure once you make an effort to do one of these things....you will meet someone that probably you have lots in common with......
Good Luck to you getting out there!!!
2006-11-23 01:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have the kids with you? Could you make 'friends' with other Mum's from the school? Perhaps if you invited other kids back to your house after school you would get to know the parents and could form friendships with them? Could you take the kids swimming and meet people there?
2006-11-22 23:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take up something like skating,going to GYM ,dancing lessons where U meet ones who are not half in the bag.You will soon find yourself more involved. Edit--3 Golds covers it well covers more bases to suit your curcimstances.
2006-11-23 00:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by hunter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get online and learn to socialise that way.. Then look for interesting event in your neighbourhood... Take up something like Yoga or go to the gym and meet people there...
2006-11-22 23:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by going out with one or two friends and forget everything and let your hair down . then progress from that. Meet new people and dont be scared. eventually you will get back out there.
2006-11-23 00:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by k_shorto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to get back there if you are not ready. Take your time to moarn your loss and when you are ready physically and emotionally, you will know without anybody telling you. It took me two years to start dating but I know people who did not take that long! Good luck!
2006-11-22 23:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by coolcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up a hobby or join a sport like tennis where you can meet new people.
2006-11-22 23:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could join a singles group, or find a hobby you can do with other people, join a gym, do you have friends you can go out with?
2006-11-22 23:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out with a group of friends rather than going out alone..... or you could try the dreaded blind date.........not always pretty but its better than the alternative.
2006-11-22 23:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out
2006-11-22 23:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by hello772345 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋