i dont love my husband. wht to do? i m so confused?

Answer 1

You are not confused. You are sure you do not love your husband.
The future course of action is to be decided by you. If still issueless, move out of the relationship and look for another of your choice and taste and decide the time period to be in that. Life is just like that. The search and lust are endless. You ought to be stable at one point or the other.

Answer 2

Clearly a huge topic and such a vague question don't go hand and hand mi'lady?

Assuming is all that can be done in this situation. And regardless as to the answers on here, unfortunately you can't get the answer here. You will have to make your own decision. All I can suggest considering the vagueness, having been through this most unlikely endeavors is to perhaps search out the true reason why you don't love him. Perhaps there is or isn't a chance of reconcilliation. But you did say for better or worse, perhaps? Remember this could be the worst.

The biggest thing that is universal, is the only true key is communication. Many lucks ;)

Answer 3

Talk to him, see if anything can be resolved.

Have you fallen out of love with him because of something he has done? Has he changed in a way that has altered your fellings towards him?

You need to be totally honest with him, obviously he will be hurt by what you have to say, but whilst you stay there saying nothing, it is hurting you!

If you cannot iron out any issues and you 100% fell that love has gone from the relationship, then as the very last resort you should move on. There is no point to staying in a relationship that doesnt work, you only get one life, so don't waste it hoping things will get better, because they won't unless you make the changes.

If Children are involved, your decision will be much harder, but the main thing to focus on is your happiness and your happiness in the future.

Speak to your closet friends and family, or maybe consider relationship councelling before you pack your bags!

Good luck!

Answer 4

I don't love my wife, but we have three children and I don't know what to do either. I wish you well. I keep thinking personal happiness vs. what's best for my children at this time. The children will always win so for know i feel like there's nothing I can do but make the best of it. If no children were involved the decision would be easy- leave.

Answer 5

You left that question a little too open ended. If you didn't love this man..then why did you marry him?? On the other had, if you DID love him when you got married, what happened in the meantime?? Like I said, you left the question too open so without making assumptions thats pretty much all I can say.

Answer 6

Be honest with him. Tell him you want a divorce...but be very sure first understand that marriage takes work. But if you truly do not love him you need to leave him so he is free to move on and find happiness elsewhere

Answer 7

Do you not love him or do you not love him anymore? If it's the latter, I don't understand why you married him in the 1st place. It would be really unfair if you just give up. Work on your marriage, you are already in it. I don believe that we don't have to trust our feelings at all times.

Answer 8

Talk to him. If he listens, okay, get a divorce. If he lashes out and calls you a lier, a cheater, and other four letter words, and maybe even hurts you in some way, then God bless you.

Answer 9

if you dont have any feelings for your husband then why did you marry him? That's weird. But if you dont want to be with him anymore then DIVORCE is the solution.

Answer 10

Why did you marry him? Now you can make a fool of him and your self by divorcing him.Next time make better choices especially when others are involved.