i am in africa and my husband just travelled to europe to stay for three years. my husband loves sex so much. please ladies and gents, i know my husband loves me so but can he stay without sex for three years? please be honest to me, i am scared
2006-11-22 22:55:23 · 12 answers · asked by favourprosperity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well... I am not going to answer that question for you and no one else can either.
The real question is whether you want to be separated from him for three years. If because of circumstances you can't make that choice, then here is what you have to do:
When he leaves you for that period of time you can't hold what he does against him. Trust that he loves you. Trust that he would never intentionally hurt you. But neither of you can tell what will happen in three years time. Remember.. he has to trust you too. Who's to say that he worries about what you will do in the next three years.
What ever happens during the next three years trust that he will come back to you and you'll come back to him. Don't let your mind worry about "another woman." If it happens, it happens, what could you have done about it? Answer, Nothing.. The real question is, do the two of you love each other enough to be separated for that long. If the answer is yes, then no matter what he does sexually in the next three years won't matter (as long as he is safe), he will come back to you and love you. Trust in that...
2006-11-23 02:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by jryanwinterhaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about your husband but l'm sure mine couldn't but then again l don't know that l could either. You say he loves you so much but no sex for 3 years is a real big challenge. For your sake l hope he passes it. If it was me l would have gone with him, l could not stand to be away from the man l love for that long . NEVER !!!!!!!!
2006-11-23 08:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not think he can, that is a very long time to go without seeing someone. You should go there if you are worried about it. Prostitution is legal in most countries in Europe so he will be tempted.
2006-11-23 08:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No man could go three years without sex. I went a year and it about killed me, and I wasn't married. If you trust your husband, then you have nothing to worry about.
I think you should've gone with him personally.
2006-11-23 07:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Gasman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no he absolutely can't. especially if he loves sex. u may say good bye to him now. he will find there some fat white girl and settle with her for the permission to stay in the country
2006-11-23 07:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I cannot believe you or him will have no free time to travel to each other during these next three years.
You can make up time during those trips!
Good luck/
2006-11-23 06:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're sure yor husband loves you, He'll wait. Trust him as I'm sure he trusts you.
2006-11-24 04:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Duckjuice3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say your prayer to God and has Him leads both your husband and you. Amen
2006-11-23 07:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I seriously doubt it.
2006-11-23 09:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by evilbarrister 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are that worried, go with him.
2006-11-23 06:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋