How come some Guys can be so up their own ar.se & then some?
Since I've been a member of Sparkpeople.com (a weight loss site) I've met loads of different people on line right across the world. That's cool! made lots of cyber friends & chatted a bunch with them too. No problem there then. It's part of my "job" as a community team leader on the site to make people welcome & check they are OK & perhaps answer any questions they may have about weight loss or technical stuff concerning the site. I also have my own group which I'm the administrator. Anyway, there I am the other day just browsing the site & saying Hi to any new ones that have joined, when I came across this Guy who only caught my eye because of a comment he'd left on another member's page about how he'd kept putting off all the things he should really be dealing with right now (health wise) His comment made a lot of sense to me so I followed his profile pic through to his page in order to leave a comment on it.
2006-11-22 22:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by Funky 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No problem there; I did as planned & went on my way. Later on I found a posting in my inbox from him. Bit strange really because I wouldn't just email anybody (that's why we have a comment section on our pages) opens the email & there's this short note saying "thanks for comment on my page, my Girlfriend's mad about Betty Boop too"
WHAT IS THE POINT? Why make the effort to email me just to let me know his g/f also likes Betty Boop! My God! This jerk thinks I'm hitting on him just because I leave a comment on his page. If I'd have been a Guy he wouldn't have made reference to his g/f at all, not that I mind him talking about her it's just that I got the impression that this totally up his own **** hole mofo can't get a message of welcome & encouragement from a Female unless she's wanting him.
I may be 50 years old but my Husband is 26. I reckon I have all I need & want already.
I wouldn't have minded I guess if he'd looked anything like Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp
2006-11-22 22:35:53 · update #1
(then I would have had an ulterior motive for contacting him) but at the end of the day he's just a new member of Sparkpeople.com & a fat mother fucker at that.
Get a life all you Guys that think just because a Female is friendly or happens to perhaps smile at you instead of scowling that she somehow can't wait to tear your clothes off. Dread the thought.
2006-11-22 22:36:37 · update #2
I think this works both ways.
Some guys will always think a girl being nice to them is flirting with them. They will try to pursue it and only get shot down.
Some other guys (like me) always think girls are just being nice to them even when they are flirting or hitting on them. We never try to pursue it and have to wait on the girl to come after us.
I know guys that fall into the middle of course but most guys I know are one type or the other. We really can not tell what you girls are doing most of the time, so we go to one extreme.
2006-11-22 22:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm obviously missing out on life then!
2006-11-23 13:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real very natural human .
2006-11-23 06:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are so bloody arrogant (not all, but the vast majority)
2006-11-23 10:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by abcdefg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the way i read it, he was just just being polite to you ?
2006-11-23 07:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by andylefty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry babe I have a girlfriend
2006-11-23 06:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋