2006-11-22 22:12:40 · 26 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
handcuffed to the bed!
2006-11-22 22:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie we're gonna need some more information. I'm guessing you're talking about the guy you're in a relationship with, and he wants to leave you and you want him to stay.
If he wants to leave then you're gonna have to let him go. It's true what they stay, if he really loves you then he'll come back. But you can not force him stay in the relationship if he's not happy. If you do that then neither of you are going to be happy knowing that he's only in the relationship because you're forcing him to be.
If you think he's not happy because of something you've been doing, that you think you can change, then tell him that. If he wants to give it another shot then that's great, but if not don't beg, accept his decision and move on.
2006-11-23 06:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ally 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to stay if he wants to leave? He would be staying for all the wrong reasons, Not fair to you. Let him go..Let him screw up his life by walking away and giving up..you be the better person..I know its probably one of the hardest things you'll ever have to do by letting him go..Not easy for anyone to do..I was in this kind of situtation, Hubby wanted out..I left him, Once i was gone we started talking and 2 months later we were back together..17 years married and never been better. Good Luck to you
2006-11-23 07:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Shem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wnat him to stay? Do you think that you would be happy trying to get him to stay when he doesn't want to? Let him go, you never know you might be happier without him, and he might even come back!
2006-11-23 08:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, you change your mind quick, wasn't that you asking how to get rid of him 5 mins ago?! Knowing what you actually want needs to come first, when u got that sorted out if you want him to stay look him in the eyes, talk to him heart to heart, remind yourselves both why you want him to be your lover.
2006-11-23 06:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by Miss thing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force anyone to stay with u, all the talking and communication in the world won't change his mind. if he does happen to stay against his will he will resent u, and your relationship will suffer for it. let them go, odviously if they want to leave us, they don't love or value us anymore, so who would want a man who didn't really want to be there? we have no control over anyone, only ourselves.
2006-11-23 09:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to stay when one of your other questions is asking how to i get my husband to leave!
Me thinks you need help Mrs!! Especially since you slept with your husband sister!
2006-11-23 09:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you don't. Why would you want someone to stay that does not want to. If you love him as the saying goes, set him free.
2006-11-23 09:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to stay then he'll stay but if not he'll leave. You shouldn't have to make him do anything. He should stay cause your worth it.
2006-11-23 11:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him to stay or leave or do you want his sister? Are you asking serious questions or are you just asking for the sake of it?
2006-11-23 06:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by DolphinLami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can. He should want to stay, not you.
2006-11-23 06:18:56 · answer #11 · answered by augustine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋