during sex i would ejaulate, with my partner. yes that's great, but, odourless water will follow. sumtimes alot. soaking both us, before my partner had ejaculated. it's definitely not urine, as the bowels close during sex. someone suggested, it comes from the uterius. a woman has a 'japs eye', situated at the 'g spot'. the water leaks from that when aroused, is that true. im sorry it's embarrassing, my partner is great with it. it's frustrating tho, when he can't reach orgasim bcoz iv just soaked him or flooded him again. any method to stop it, would be great....
2006-11-22 21:54:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No, there's no way to stop it, I'm afraid, other than to stop enjoying sex or stop getting aroused.
He should be more understanding. Would he prefer you to be as dry as sand?
2006-11-22 21:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by winballpizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i don't think there is anyway to stop this, a few suggestions though would be to try and come to terms with it as this is who you are. If you enjoy sex then i shouldnt worry about it at all, its just female ejaculation and should be a turn on for him if anything. I agree with whoever up there said try it in the shower, that could be fun. Or a towel on the bed.
2006-11-23 03:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could just put a lot of towels on the bed to absorb the fluid? Don't be embarrassed that you're a squirter, it's great! And I bet your partner loves it cos it makes him feel good. If he has a problem reaching orgasm cos he's soaked, just give him head after you've come?
2006-11-22 22:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by love_ninewest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not much you can do.You must enjoy sex and ejaculation you forget.You can try simple technique>it may work and reduce the quantum of fluid.Pose should be man on top.Keep both legs as close as possible after the insertion of penis(Man on top position),Do sex on empty stomach.Donot drink too much water before sex.Avoid alcoholic beverages on the day you do sex.
2006-11-26 21:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing it in the shower? :)
and you could always give him some oral pleasure or a handjob to finish things off. ..might even give analsex a try after you have ejaculated so you won't flood him again?... just a thought tho. that way you can come, then he can come.
you could try to give him pleasure for a while, before you come - that way you increase the chance you two will come together. just another thought ;)
hope it helps.. :)
2006-11-22 22:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by yetil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax this is perfectly normal, and many would give anything to be able to do this(or have their girlfriend do it).
How about he makes you gush during foreplay, you can then have a quick mop up before he enters you and comes himself.
Good luck.
2006-11-22 23:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by FUGAZI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner does the same thing. I put an extra sheet over our wet spot then continue.
2006-11-22 22:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you want to stop it!!
It's fantastic, and my partner loves it cos he knows he's doing everything right!!
Dont stop it, just enjoy it. Just stick extra sheets or summat down on the bed!
2006-11-23 05:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for not asking when the kids are home from school. Could you remove it before they do?
To be honest i think a lot of men would almost kill for that in their partner. But don't tell anyone i said it plz.
2006-11-22 22:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
its good that your partner is ok with it. this is normal. try giving your partner oral first some times it helps them to ejaculate at the end of your orgasm. doesn't always work thought. good luck!
2006-11-22 22:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by dragontears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋