I dont think that is possible, what do u guys think?
2006-11-22 21:06:38 · 19 answers · asked by arielsalom33 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks guys, I read a recent question about should I tell my bf im in love with that im doing another guy, and I thought to myself, your so not in love anyways, so whats the point!
2006-11-22 21:11:41 · update #1
Well, in my opinion, if anyone honestly believes or feels that way, they've never known true, real love. So, therefore, they aren't 'in love' with anyone, except maybe themselves. And, maybe they're even in love with the thought of being in love, and not actually loving the person they think they do. Because I believe if you love or are in love with someone, you wouldn't even consider, let alone HAVE flings on the side, cause true love isn't selfish. A person 'in love' with someone usually feels the need to set him/her in a higher regard than even themselves. And, I feel 'flings' on the side definitely border on the ME factor. Maybe one day they'll actually grasp the meaning of real love, if not, they'll never find true happiness.
2006-11-22 21:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being in love is wonderful, as we all know. During the first time one certainly doesn’t have the mood for flings on the side. Yet as time passes and lust is replaced by other emotions, like respect, concern, you name it, then it is possible and through the time even necessary for most of the people of both sexes to get into that kind of trouble… Adventures do strengthen self-confidence. One night stand cheating does not nullify love, respect or affection. I do it and I do accept it from my ten years’ partner.
2006-11-22 21:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is possible, based upon the statistics and people I know who are doing it. People are all wired differently, and that's why compatibility is so important. I believe an honest, open relationship which includes sex with others on the side (with informed consent of both parties) is perfectly fine. It is not for everyone, however.
2006-11-22 21:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why LOVE is a strong word because it can broken down in so many ways. But to me flings sometimes make that love relationship better. Who are we to say its wrong? I know; we was taught not to do such things. If your careful with it this it is not wrong, (THIS IS WHAT WE ARE!! BREEDERS). Now having a offspring with someone other than the person you love is wrong, this is why we have to be careful with our flings. I don't suspect alot of people to agree on this with me. Like i said most of us was brought up believing in this is a sin. To me most of these so called sins are made up by the men on this planet......
2006-11-22 21:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by KEN DOG 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think if you are unmarried, and the relationship is admittedly open, then it is possible.....
But, if married, it is adultery.....
If in a committed relationship and there is no admittance or acceptance of an "open relationship", then there is no need to be together......
That is why marriage is as it is.... so that one doesn't bring unsuspected "luggage" into the relationship that wasn't there before the relationship began.....
your sister,
Ginger
2006-11-22 21:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 14:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by lillibridge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it 's not as if it's possible but wat's happenin , which's mainly common wit guys,they profess they really love their gurls yet still have flings.but i think a genuine love 's all about respect & feelins,'cos if u have one u won't have flings.
2006-11-22 21:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by jtee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love and sex are two different things.. Yes I think it's possible. But I also believe sex with the person you love does not compare to just sex..
2006-11-22 21:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being in love is about loyalty and devotion. It's gotta be special between two people.
2006-11-23 09:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. The stuff on the side is just entertainment! You go home to the one you love that is important.
2006-11-22 21:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋