spouse away in mil!
2006-11-22 21:06:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pathetic! Does it matter if your spouse is in the military? This somehow makes it okay to fool around on them? It's NEVER okay! My husband's in the military as well and neither of us have fooled around on each other. We take our vows very seriously. I hope you're not the spouse who's left behind at home, thinking about fooling around while your partner is away on deployment, fighting for his/her country.
If you are so lonely that you're thinking about fooling around, I hope you'd invest that time instead in getting a hobby or an activity of your own to bide your time instead of sitting at home alone, feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-11-22 21:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
GameGiver hear with a few life lessons. Stay in School! Drink your milk! Eat your veggies! Don't do drugs! Listen to your parents! Don't trick on your spouse! People are always looking for an excuse. If you're going to do, don't whine about it because that's what you wanted to do. If work is going to mess up your marriage, quit. That's not the only job there is. You have to align your priorities. Now, if you're going to cheat on whoever whenever, just stay where you're at and do what you do. Just don't feel bad later about a conscious decision that you made.
2006-11-22 21:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by GameGiver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't an excuse. Have cyber or phone sex with your spouse if you are going to be physically separated for a while.
2006-11-23 01:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by evilbarrister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely not an excuse cause being tied with marriage is a sacred vow and this also serves as a test of your fidelity...
2006-11-22 21:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by Vocal Prowess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is never an excuse to cheat.........please attempt to reconnect with your husband to get the attention that you need. I am living this story right now.....and the pain my husbands affair is causing me is horrendous!
2006-11-22 21:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Desert flower 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no excuse. you wouldn't want your husband to do that to you. how would that make you feel? unless, of course, there's something you're not telling us. is there more to the story? regardless, both of you need to spend quality communicating. it's obvious there are hinderances in the relationship or you wouldn't be contemplating infidelity. talk it out.
do unto others as you would have them do unto you. i live by it...
2006-11-22 21:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by cutesensiblechic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you made vows to him to be honest and true to him or her just because work is a problem of not spending time together gives you no excuss to fool around
2006-11-22 21:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by da 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is Never OK to fool around!
2006-11-22 21:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you read you're question over? It doesn't make sense.
2006-11-22 21:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-11-22 21:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by DAYNA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋