My son got in a fight with a black kid and when I went to confront the boy his father stepped in and we had some heated words. He called me a name and I called him THE name and he swung at me I maced him and tried to stab him in the eye with my keys. The cops said it was a hate crime and arrested him after I told the police what happened. I have been called racist at work and now lately I have been in 4 more fights with more gorillas. I will send more of those mooleys back to the hospital if it continues but I dont know how to stop this....for my sons sake should we move or join the KKK or what? And for the record I have 3 black friends so I am not racist..
2006-11-22 20:58:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am white and have black friends. I am not racist but have stereotypes. I recognized this years ago. I don't try to correct this anymore. Just look at the statistics....
2006-11-22 21:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it was because of the racist comment you made. Sometimes, when people push our buttons, we say inapppropriate things. You didn't mention what started the fight between your son and the other kid. I would have gotten the police involved if the kid had started the fight with your son. It's also important that you and your son walk away from idiots who start fights.
I've worked with teens for many years, and in many cases, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
2006-11-22 21:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 'hate crime' is an added charge that's utilized to circumstances the place the purpose became into hatred in the direction of a team that the sufferer became into aside of. the element at the back of that's to justify a harder sentence, as those all of us is statistically greater probably to re-offend while they're launched. If somebody burned your place down when you consider which you're black, they're much less probably to basically stop there than in the event that they only burned down Bob's living house down the line with the aid of fact they disliked him. That being suggested, I agree that "hate crimes" are transforming into extremely overused as a charge while there is not any evidence that the crime became into committed out of hate. a reliable occasion of this became into the Rutger's bullying case that became into contained in the information at the instant. mutually as what the sufferer's roommate did became into sick and incorrect, there became into no sparkling evidence that it became into executed with the aid of fact he exceedingly hated gay human beings, yet he became into nevertheless convicted on the dislike crime charge.
2016-10-04 06:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dosent matter what colour you are or the guy you had a fight with the cops would off assumed it was a hate crime cuzz its easier on them to judge. if you feel you are a racist and want to be one then thats you right to be one, if you want to stop then mayby go to see a councilor and they can help you out for your childrens sake. i dont hate any race only if they do somethink to me to make me hate them and that still wont be racist it will be a man hating another man.
2006-11-22 21:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blacks are bigger racist than anyone on earth. But if they admitted to it in public they wouldnt be able to play the race card anymore. Woe have pitty on us because my ancestors were slaves. Well my ancestors were hebrew and I think the Egyptians which are African invented slavery and my ancestors were enslaved for thousands of years not just a few hundred.
2006-11-22 21:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get into fights and anger. we do think we dont mean to do. fighting is not right. just change and send your kid to another school. dont move elsewhere. that is cowardly. encourage your son to study and make sensible friends. dont tell him negative things. be a friend to your son and love peace. say no to fights and physical emotions. just try and you will learn. attend some anger management sessions or just take a nice holiday for destress
2006-11-22 21:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cassiopeia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having black friends doesnt' mean your not racist. I think that maybe your problem isn't racism its anger management. I'd not be worried about your child turning into a racist, I'd worry about him solving is problems with his fists....... take a long hard look at yourself buddy.
2006-11-22 21:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by aziz m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's pretty evident that your rage is somewhat out of control. perhaps you should try attending anger management. or, should you opt for self therapy, try being a more reasonable person... preferring words over fists. to encourage this, do more pleasant and less strenuous activities during your pasttime to relieve you of any residual anger.
2006-11-22 21:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ricky the Kid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to tame your anger if you want to live with other human beings. Be careful what you say and never never abuse any one in future.
2006-11-22 21:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the judge can decide if it was a hate crime.
2006-11-22 21:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋