My wife told me last week she ended her affair with a black man. I tried to control myself but couldn't and hit her for it. She left me and is now with that jungle bunny. I have 3 black friends so im not racist but it angers me to think a silver back guerilla is banging my wife right now. I have told my son about it and I trashed her car but I dont feel any better. How do i control myself over this thanksgiving holiday?
2006-11-22 20:27:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This just recently happened so its gonna be hard to control ur anger...but just think of who ur gonna be with for the holiday and how u dont want to ruin thanksgiving for u and them over ur anger...but after the holiday maybe u should try doing crossword puzzles or try sudoku (its alot of fun) its also a puzzle to take ur mind off of her
2006-11-22 20:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well i am sorry that your wife has cheated on you..but that seems to be the least of your problems did you ever think that this is the type of behavior that might have caused your wife to stray? You are setting an extremly bad example for you son..and acting extremly inmature trashing her car? wow thats almost kind of psycho...anyways you control yourself over thanksgiving by acting like an adult and setting a good example for you son. Enjoying the holiday with your family and if you don't think you can do that I would suggest that you leave the situation go for a drive, take a walk ect..when you feel like you are about to explode. I hope things get better for you and that you make the right decision and step up as an adult and father and deal with the situation in a mature manner.
2006-11-22 20:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by thereis 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are racist. Why does the race of the other man matter?? Would it be okay for your wife to be with a white man? Do you use the terms "jungle bunny" and "silver back guerilla" [sic] around your 3 black friends??
No wonder your wife is messing around. You are a racist jerk. Good for her.
2006-11-22 20:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you'd feel any better if he was green with two heads. It hurts but with time u will get over it. trashing her things isn't the answer. try therapy. you need to guide that anger & hatred towards a more positive area. you are using up a lot of energy that you could be using to think. you could get back at her in a financial way that might hurt her as much as she hurt you & prosper by it. this will help u feel a lot better.
2006-11-22 20:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by DAYNA S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a racist, and maybe your wife did it with a black man just to get back at you because of it. I'm not saying that your wife was right, she wasn't but I'm glad that she left you for him and I hope they have lots and lots of children together. Because she deserves to be with a better man than you. Someone who loves her and that won't get angry and hit her, because they can't control their temper
2006-11-22 20:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Baps . 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Whether the man is black or another race doesn't matter. You're the one that sounds nuts. No wonder she left you for this other man. Sounds like you need help to not be so controlling or abusive. Check yourself into the jail or seek out a therapist.
2006-11-22 20:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
Simple you man up grow a pair put the tramp in the past and go on with your life . It gets better as time passes
2014-07-14 02:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be extremely cautious. If you harm or threaten her you can end up in jail. Also if you trash her property it could also be considered a threat and again you can be jailed. She will then get a restraining order on you. Keep it up and she will divorce you and take everything the two of you own while you sit in your jail cell.
2006-11-22 20:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If a woman cheats on you, you can't forgive her because if she did it once it can happen again so move on man thats the only way. Ever heard the saying "there's too many fish in the sea"
2006-11-22 20:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by blo247 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Cheat with a black woman and leave her.
2014-04-14 14:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by cccp920292002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋