i told her i'm in love with a boy and now she tels me she wants him. when the boy she liked told me he wants me i turned him down cause i knew she was in love with him. why is she doing this to me? what can i do?
2006-11-22 20:15:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Is her name "Sandy"?
2006-11-22 20:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that she isn't a friend at all!
If she goes ahead with her attempt to push up on the boy you like give her a run for her money! If she sees how much you really like him and still doesn't back down dump the bi'ach.
You deserve a better friend than that!
2006-11-23 04:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by ema 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did u play into her hands and turn this boy down?
He made it clear and told u he liked u and u turned him down!
U have serious confident problems
Get a grip and sort yourself out before u start blaming other people
2006-11-23 08:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her you turned the other fellow down if not then tell her, maybe she will keep her distance from the boy you like..
If you have already told her, then GET A NEW FRIEND
2006-11-23 06:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tazman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha, that happened to me when i was at school. Yeah shes a *****, she will probably always be a selfish jealous person..get rid and get the guy! You have the right idea about how friendships work, but she is a bit of a cow by the sound of it! keep your friends close but your enemies closer..in other words, keep a close eye on her she may stab you in the back!
2006-11-23 11:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Estee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just being honest and she really does want him? But you shouldnt turn the boy down just because of her. He told you he liked you, so why hurt him because of her? She will find someone else to date.
2006-11-23 04:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by EAT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the saying realationships come n go but best friends stay 4 eva come in to mind but in this case i say not.
i say go with the guy you like, ur friend get over it.. did she like him/ fancy him b4 u did? she might have had her eye on him 4 awhile just shy to do anythin then u came in the way. if not she just jealous and scared cuz she going to lose u and not see u as much as she used to. cuz once people get in2 realationship everything changes.
2006-11-23 04:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to understand that he doesn't like her like that.is this the same lad? if so go out with him, because he doesn't return your friends feeling for her, but does for you. Some people are full of s**t, just f&&k and go out with him. Don't play this game with her becauseyou'll be playing it with everything and everyone that you meet. you'll always be 2nd important and her receiving downfalls because she is unemotionally intellgant.
2006-11-24 12:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by shadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatly some people on look out for themselves and expect others to look out for them too. there is no real explanation for what she has done apart from the fact that she is selfish. in future i advise you to not be quite so considerate to her feeling and try thinking of yourself for a change because no one else will hun
2006-11-23 04:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not a true friend and it sometimes has to do with envy, maybe she likes to be the center of attention and does she feels that she is prettier than you. She does not see eye to eye with you, you to her are below and she will always be higher.
2006-11-26 00:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendships come first, both you and your friend should leave this man well alone. men will come and go in your life, but friends are there to stay. this is the way me and my friend have lasted 20 years of friendship.
2006-11-23 04:37:19 · answer #11 · answered by lamyarhull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋