Don't you think Live-in relationship is nothing but deceiving one self?

Question

Live in relationship is like travelling in a taxi. Keep on shifting taxi to taxi for your travel and do not prefer to have your own car. One can not get to see all the merits and demerits and ultimately shifting to one to another and end result marriage remains as a dream and good time is lost and remain as loner for the rest of the life
What is this live in relationship better call it temporary arrangement to have temporary stay. It is obvious one sure to get fed up with the partner after certain duration and look for an other temporary stay and there is no end result. The age old institution of marriage is permanent binding and there is sanctity.

Answer 1

i think in any relationship there's a bit of self-deception. it's probabaly upto the society to make and break customs. the sanctity of marriage is comparable to the sanctity of virtue, which was accepted by our ancestors long ago.

Answer 2

Live-in relationship is all about trials and erors. One chooses to stay with another and could possibly end up doing many things with each other including sex. But there always remains an issue of compatibility. If the compatibility between the two people works out then the two will get on with a married life.
For some people it doesn't work. It is quite hard to understand the mentaily of this second group of people. They expect something great out of live-in relationship and when it doesn't work they move out and hunt for another person. Why they do it is all a part of their character and approach to life.
The bottom line is - look what is good for you. Some people will have positive outcomes from a live-in relation whereas others will have a not-so good experience.
See what suits you the best and go on with life. And always believe in yourself and what you are doing. Do not create a situation where you will have to repent in future.

Answer 3

can't be all that permanent and binding when a large percentage of marriages in this country are treated a great deal like a sport... over 50% of the people who marry get a divorce. If they had taken the time to live-in, they might have better understood the transformation that one goes thru living with another being in your space, a person that is now connected to you on paper in over 20 files around the world, and one you have to pay in many instants to break off the relationship. Just because someone is married don't mean they really love the person they married and by the same token there are many many examples of people who deeply love each other and live together because their relationship is more important to them than participation in a sport or someome elses ritual They would rather not allow someone else to dectiate how that relationship is to be played out during this life

Answer 4

Your question, at first sight, seemed complex but it's not...Whatever relationship two people(or a million!) are comfortable with is ok FOR THEM...If you consider all living creatures you'll find mating-for-life and just the opposite: a free for all, or at least for the strongest male. So take a hint from nature and don't get tied up in knots over a subject that's so relative...

Answer 5

Your comparison is O.k. But sometimes taxi arrangement is better if you have sufficient money & u do not want to take pains.

Sometime car is comfortable but it gives trouble when in traffic Jam,Not is use,Over heads without use( to be paid) & lastly (you maintain & someone other uses it)

It is better to have car at home & run on Taxi

Answer 6

live in relation is a blot on human dignity and courage.
This is because from the very first the relation is based on suspicion. every small mistake is exaggerated. No give and take in emotional matters. No assurances of supporting each other under all circumstances .break away on the first sign of calamity

Answer 7

Life itself is temporary, and to seek a temporary relationship within that is 'play within the play ' ! Does not work. Play sincerely, intensely, unmindful of winning or losing.... One thing is sure, the game becomes enjoyable, and memorable too !

Answer 8

what matters in life is happiness not bonds that'll make one feel sick later on..live in relationships are okay provided people have planned about their future...one can get to know the other person in a better way....i mean it's not all about sex..it's about the game called life...if one is comfortable with someone...they together can achieve a lot of things in life..even dating will not give so much comfort level as live in relationships bcoz in datin u don get 2 c all d aspects of a particular individual...

Answer 9

I lived with my current husband for 3 years before we got married. We have been married almost 24 years now. If your commited to each other you will most likely eventually get married. I lived with a man for 5 years before my marriage it was a whole lot easier to get out of that relationship then it would be to get out of this one. After living with this man for 5 years I for sure knew I wouldn't marry him and too bad for him when I left he for sure thought he wanted to marry me but it was a day late and a dollar short. Marrying him would have been a horrible mistake I see that now. Thank goodness we lived together and found that out before we made the mistake of getting married. I might have stupidly thought I needed to try and make it work out when it never would have.

Answer 10

absolutely not.if live-in relationship is decieving oneself,what is meant by a RELATIONSHIP.it is a ship which keeps on sailing even when obstacles of icebergs come in its way.what about TITANIC though it got lost but all the lovers loved each others till the end.living in a relationship is living your life what GOD has given to you.its not temporary if its true.if your love is true then yor relationship is also true.decieving someone and even oneself depends on one's mentality and thoughts.all of us don't think alike.so live-in relationship is not decieving oneself but to teach oneself how to live truely.