My friend is ok, but he's not always nice and stuff. Is he really my friend?

Question

Like he's nice and all, but when I talk about something I am Happy about he just shoves it off. Like he says he's jus playin but I don't always beleive him. And He doesn't always Like me he will like sometimes not talk to me when i did nothing wrong to him. What should I do? and. Is he really my friend?

Answer 1

Maybe ur friend is the type of person that tells it like it is ! maybe this is just his personality ,just thinkabout this: if u dont go to him does he come to u??, does he seem to care? try talking to him honestly also coZ u dont wanna waist ur time with some one that doesnt like u!

Answer 2

Sweetie I think you already know the answer. There is a marvelous quote by Maya Angelou that says, " WHEN A PERSON SHOW SYOU WHO THEY ARE...BELIEVE THEM." He is hsowingyou who he is, a friend woudl rejoice inyour victoriy and have commpassion on your defeats. A friend encourages, but you cannot have that w/ someone that is not mature. It sound slike your friend is not mature, no MATURE person w/holds conversation, that is an action of a spoiled child. As yourself do you want somebody whole or settle for scraps. God has someone awesome for you that will be everythin gyou need him to be, but sweetie this does not sound like him. Pray and ask the Lord to send you the right person, i promise he will.

Answer 3

sounds to me like he's just using you to look good because he doesn't want to look like a loser for being alone . he may have low self esteem, and needs someone to look at him hear him and when someone else comes around or has has something else to do or someplace else to be he's gone till the next time he needs a body to fulfil his needs. and sounds like you are. a friend that is all about them self is no friend.

Answer 4

It almost sounds like he has areal problem being happy for you......talk to him about it..

Answer 5

You should ask him. Like "Do you hate me?" or "Do you consider me as your friend?"